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I chose the wrong husband.

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#1
  • はまちゃん
  • mail
  • 2020/10/16 00:48

My husband is not funny. But I should be grateful to him for supporting my life. This dilemma has weakened my heart.

I know that a husband and wife are to be kept together through hard work.

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#86
  • あれ？
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 08:40
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！ eh people aren't just imagining things ？

you wrote that your husband didn't make women outside the home.

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#87
  • ん？
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 08:58
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↑ wrong person

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#88
  • ん？
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 08:59
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You're being very judgmental, so I thought you were experienced.

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#89
  • 話の流れから？
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 18:14
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> Worst of all, the affair became serious and he was morally harassed by his wife. It's like, go to hell.

You can't imagine such specifics unless you've experienced it.

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#90
  • 話の流れから？
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 18:14
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Go to hell.

I haven't heard that in a long time.

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#91
  • やはり
  • 2020/11/02 (Mon) 21:48
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Humor is important.
My husband, on the contrary, has a sense of humor, and I admire it.
We have been married for a long time and we show each other many things we don't like about each other, but when we have a sense of humor, we can reset ourselves. …
So I want to learn from him and be funny, so why not be funny yourself first ？ ？.

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#92
  • あきらめることも大事
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 07:55
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I don't have a problem with him. However, he does not do anything at home except play with his children (and only when it suits him), which is very difficult for me. If you think that earning money and playing with children is enough, it may be fine, but I am not satisfied with it, and I don't want to be with him again. It's like having a big kid and a little kid. Some people say we should get divorced right away, but I think that if we were going to get divorced that easily, we should have never gotten married ？. I am dissatisfied and frustrated, but I think of it as part of marriage.

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#93
  • しかし
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 08:10
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92
Married couples are also important to each other's efforts. Communication is also important.
I think the reason you can't share the workload well is because of yourself. You have to change yourself to be able to do it. It is easy to blame the other person and get frustrated, but it doesn't solve anything. You will be a good husband if you treat him wisely ？

You should study the male mind first ？ Men are surprisingly honest and easy to roll over. Of course, you have to be better than your husband in some way.

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#94
  • 共働き
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 08:23
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It is usually women who get tired after marriage

because men are spoiled by their mothers and their wives are like mothers
it is natural for women to do housework

that is why women choose husbands who earn money

to begin with

Many of them are not very good at housework because their mothers do everything around them
The rest we choose not to do
The husband is the income earner

The wife is the child carer

Then we can take care of each other.

try to keep it 50/50

your husband will start to notice.

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#95
  • 単純に
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 08:41
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You are not happy ？

when you have a child

you abandon your woman, yell at your child, get irritated with your husband

what men want from women

is to satisfy their sexual appetite, their appetite and to be beautiful
.
but for some reason, women who get married and have children have no use for their husbands. She becomes a moneybags, and her husband complains that she doesn't help him with the housework, and he wonders inwardly if she understands how hard it is to earn money.

In the end, it is both of them.

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#96
  • あきらめることも大事
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 11:59
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It's mutual. But you are free to not want to be together. I'm not a big fan. I'm living a normal life, my children are cute, and I'm happy. It's none of your business. It's laughable that you expect and preach without permission.

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#97

It's both of them.
When you get married, you stop seeing your wife as a woman, you abandon her ・ ・ ・ ・ That's why they say you have an affair.

After a certain amount of time, the mistress loses her freshness as a woman, and she becomes jealous and nagging and fights constantly.
Nothing soothes them and they go home ！.

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#98
  • 単純に
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 13:08
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↑ Then maybe you shouldn't comment ？.

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#100
  • ん？
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 15:07
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97> After a certain amount of time, the mistress loses her freshness as a woman, becomes jealous and nagging, and fights constantly.
Nothing heals and the feelings go home ！

The desire of the adulterous wife ？
The woman is too stupid to be jealous when she knows she is having an affair.

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#101

So it means that they don't necessarily have a reason to have an affair.
Most men are lucky if they can keep a family and have a mistress.
If they don't find one, they just want to have fun. If you are found, the affair is over. ！ That's all.

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#102
  • え？
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 15:17
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> We're both here. But you are free to not want to be with us. What a big deal from the top. I live a normal life, my kids are cute and I'm happy. It's none of your business. It's funny that you predict and preach without permission.

Yes. I am free. Everyone's views are also free.

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#103
  • 面白くないだけで？？
  • 2020/11/03 (Tue) 22:14
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I think ？ ？ that you should just go out and make friends and friends and have fun. My mother-in-law does that.

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#104
  • そうかな？
  • 2020/11/04 (Wed) 07:31
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103
I'm glad I married a funny husband ？

I can't be with someone who can't take a joke everyday.

As someone who grew up in a home full of laughter

I realized again in Corona

Family is still the most important

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#105

#104
What's a funny husband .....
I don't think it matters ？ I don't ask my husband to be funny. Because jokes and such are a talent or trait that people have, and this is not something you can work on. It's a good thing at work, because when there is one person who is funny, everyone laughs and acts as a lubricant. But at home, I don't think I need that. More than that, I need seriousness, a sense of responsibility, strength that won't waver no matter what, and calmness and reticence.
He can point out things that women can't notice.
I'm happy with that. But I wish I had a funny man, like my father-in-law or a neighbor uncle.
And laughter is all over TV and Net, so I want my husband to be quiet.

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#106
  • YES!
  • 2020/11/04 (Wed) 09:14
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#104
＞ Family is still the most important

I totally agree.
I am always grateful to my husband.

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