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好きな人が忘れられない
- #1
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- UCLA555
- 2009/10/19 12:11
別れて数か月の人のことを今だに引きずっています。
彼の嫌なところもあるけど、好きなところがたくさんあるので
やり直したいと思っています。が、彼にはもう二度と会いたくない、嫌いだと、
言われました。原因は性格の不一致です。
どうすれば、忘れられるか、また、同じような経験をされた方で
復縁できた方など、どんな回答でも受け付けます。
宜しくおねがいします。
- #17
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- 香取沢慎吾
- 2009/10/21 (Wed) 22:23
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#4に同意です。俺も、「性格の不一致」じゃなくて、「性格上の欠点」だと思う。
「性格の不一致」で「二度と会いたくない、嫌いだ」とまで言わないでしょう。それなりの理由があるはずで、普通に考えれば、その要因さえクリアすれば復縁は容易なはず。なのにそれを書いていない。それって、自分に欠点がある事を認めることが出来ないんじゃないかと。
僕はトピ主さんが望んでいる事は、「自分の性格を直すことなく、よりを戻す」なのではないかと。だから「性格の不一致」と表現したんじゃ?それなら100%無理と断言できます。
確率が高いとはいえ、あくまでも憶測でしかないので、何とも言えませんが。
- #18
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睡眠療法とかいいらしいですよ。あとは縁切り神社とか。
日本に帰ったときとか試されてみては?
結構、そこまでして忘れらなかったら、それは自分が忘れたくないからなんですよね。
傷ついたことを人は忘れることはできないと思います。
忘れたつもりでも、傷自体はそこにあるんだと思います。
仕方ないよ。みんなそうだよ。
相手を好きで終わる恋はほんとにやめたいよね。できれば。
でも今後悔してることは、あなたを確実に成長させると思う。
- #19
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- ビートたけし
- 2009/10/22 (Thu) 10:08
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「日本との遠距離恋愛」の Sun さんを見習ってみてはいかがですか?
丁度、募集しているようなので一歩踏み出すチャンスかも知れませんよ。
- #20
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- suyekoyona
- 2009/10/22 (Thu) 20:41
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#19に賛成。Sun さんに会って見たら? 拒否されたら、いきたくなるけど、あっさりと、見切りをつけたら。。
- #21
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- みしぇる
- 2009/10/24 (Sat) 02:22
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一時的に忘れる事はできても、すぐ思い出す。結局同じことの繰り返しだから、その苦しみに耐え、時間が解決してくれるのを待つしかないのです。
まして、新しい恋をすれば忘れられるなんて言う事はありません。
相手の事を忘れられないまま、他の男性と付き合っても、いい事はありません。別トピ「元彼の同僚」などから、前の男を引きずったままの女性を男性は好きにならない可能性が高いからです。好きになる可能性がないとは言えませんが。
連続失恋なんて最悪の事態になったら、忘れるどころか、さらに傷を深める事になります。はっきり言って、立ち直れなくなりますよ。
ただ、相手との出会いが「出会い系」であるなら、そんな事は当然であり、それに堪えられないなら、出会い系などするべきではありません。
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