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Divorce from a foreign husband

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#1
  • Kokusaikekkon
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  • 2021/12/20 19:11

I am in divorce proceedings with my husband of almost 20 years. There is a possibility that we may not agree on the division of property, and if we go to court, it could be a protracted process. However, we are currently living together and it is hard for me to be mentally stable.

Is it possible for the husband to remain in the U.S. and return home while the wife is in divorce court and conduct the trial remotely?

Divorce is a very emotional experience. If you know, I would appreciate any advice you could give me. Thank you in advance.

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#22
  • 梨
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 16:49
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I think there are not a few couples where the wife's income is better than the husband's and the wife, fed up with it, wants a divorce.
On the contrary, I feel that many couples work better when the "husband works hard + wife works part-time and does the housework. There are many reasons why people get into trouble over property division, so I feel like that is a different story.

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#23
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 16:49
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The posts in these places
are written in such a way that it is convenient for you.

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#24

Thank you all for the many kind messages. I have been reading your messages over and over again so that I can prepare for the paperwork without getting emotionally involved in the mentally tough situation. I was encouraged by your message that you were also able to overcome divorce proceedings while living together.

I have my own income, but my husband has by far the higher income. We bought our house during the real estate boom, so the property value more than doubled, even with the mortgage. My husband's share of the cost was mostly his, so he is not happy with the 50/50. He also lacks knowledge of family law and has difficulty with the 50/50 split of the 401K, saying why ？ when it is his. I think if my husband consulted a lawyer properly, he would understand that there is almost no room for dispute there.

401K, I am researching how I can get information from my husband. If he refuses to give it to me, it will be very difficult if I can't demand it without fighting it in court.

In California, real estate prices have increased several times in the past 20 years, and even if one party wishes not to sell, it is a sale unless you buy out the other party's interest in the present value. What price is used as a reference for calculating the present value, if it is in arbitration? Sorry for all the questions.

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#25
  • 昭和のおやじは口が臭い
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 20:30
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You, a lifelong unmarried man, tell me that, tho.

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#26
  • 結局
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 20:36
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If we forget to appreciate each other, we're headed for divorce

Because the obvious is not the obvious.

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