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DV旦那
- #1
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- 離婚したい
- 2013/01/07 09:03
旦那の言葉の暴力と脅しがひどいので
離婚を考えてます
言葉の暴力の立証は難しいのでしょうか?
カリフォルニア州でのDVと離婚専門の日本語の話せる弁護士知ってる方居ましたら教えて下さい
宜しくお願いします
- #14
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こんな状況は毎日苦しいと思います。
ステップファミリーであっても子供さんを守るのは親の務めです。
まず離れて暮らすことから始めてみませんか?
落ち着いてからそれなりの手続きをとればいいと思います。
経済的に頼ろうとするから前に進めないのではありませんかルームシェアでもいいではありませんか。
パートの仕事しか稼げませんではなくて今よりもっとパートを増やして(フルタイムがあれば一番いいのですが)息子さんにもお子遣いのアルバイトくらいはできると思います。
きつい言い方ですが自分のことは自分で切り開いていかないと誰も助けてはくれません。
きちんと見切りをつけて次のステップに進んで下さい。離婚が先よりも現実の生活の方が大事ではないでしょうか?
行動する事によって次のステップがみえてくると思います。
人間って一緒にいるとお互いに気持ち的に頼ってしまいますが離れてみると考えが変わります。
反省する気持ちも生まれるしけんかをする気持ちもなくなります。
多分それが精神的に強くなると言う事かもしれません。
ストレスが溜まり過ぎて病気になる前に次のステップを。
- #15
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>息子は17歳です。しかも私たちはステップファミリーですので
血のつながりはありません。
血のつながりが無くても息子は息子。
血のつながりある、つながりが無い、を言ってはだめです。
今は難しい年頃でも歳の離れた友達と考えれば楽でしょう。
>子供ももう高校生ですので、もう一緒に暮らすのは
限界だと言っています。
はっきり伝えなさい。どんな事があっても成人する迄はあんたを育てる。成人したら巣立ちなさい。と
- #17
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- kuji
- 2013/01/15 (Tue) 10:51
- Report
息子さんにも警察に訴える権利はありますよ。
あまりひどいようなら警察を呼んでみたらいいですよ。
血の繋がりは関係ないです。
育ての親ですから。
何が原因でそんなに殴ったのですか?
親のエゴ?
息子の非行?
学校の成績?
考え方の違い?
まずは暴力なしで第三者を入れて話し合ってみては?
- #19
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ライトハウスさん、
17歳で学校に通っているのに、それだけ殴られてもほかに誰も気がつかないのですか?
それとも、服で隠れた部分だけを選んで殴っているのでしょうか?
息子さんはなぜ通報しないのでしょうか。
学校の先生に伝えるだけでも、すぐに先生が通報してくれますが・・・。
18歳以下の子どもを殴るなんて重罪です。
そして、ともに住んでいながら通報を怠っているライトハウスさんも虐待責任を問われます。息子が誰かに言う前にきちんと通報したほうがいいですよ。
通報されれば、ご主人は即逮捕、おそらく執行猶予はつかないででしょう。
まさか、自分の生活が困るから通報しないんじゃないですよね?
そんなこと人として許されませんし、ここカリフォルニアでは厳しい法的追及を受けますので、気をつけてください。
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