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Divorce from a foreign husband

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#1
  • Kokusaikekkon
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  • 2021/12/20 19:11

I am in divorce proceedings with my husband of almost 20 years. There is a possibility that we may not agree on the division of property, and if we go to court, it could be a protracted process. However, we are currently living together and it is hard for me to be mentally stable.

Is it possible for the husband to remain in the U.S. and return home while the wife is in divorce court and conduct the trial remotely?

Divorce is a very emotional experience. If you know, I would appreciate any advice you could give me. Thank you in advance.

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#22
  • 梨
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 16:49
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I think there are not a few couples where the wife's income is better than the husband's and the wife, fed up with it, wants a divorce.
On the contrary, I feel that many couples work better when the "husband works hard + wife works part-time and does the housework. There are many reasons why people get into trouble over property division, so I feel like that is a different story.

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#23
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 16:49
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The posts in these places
are written in such a way that it is convenient for you.

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#24

Thank you all for the many kind messages. I have been reading your messages over and over again so that I can prepare for the paperwork without getting emotionally involved in the mentally tough situation. I was encouraged by your message that you were also able to overcome divorce proceedings while living together.

I have my own income, but my husband has by far the higher income. We bought our house during the real estate boom, so the property value more than doubled, even with the mortgage. My husband's share of the cost was mostly his, so he is not happy with the 50/50. He also lacks knowledge of family law and has difficulty with the 50/50 split of the 401K, saying why ？ when it is his. I think if my husband consulted a lawyer properly, he would understand that there is almost no room for dispute there.

401K, I am researching how I can get information from my husband. If he refuses to give it to me, it will be very difficult if I can't demand it without fighting it in court.

In California, real estate prices have increased several times in the past 20 years, and even if one party wishes not to sell, it is a sale unless you buy out the other party's interest in the present value. What price is used as a reference for calculating the present value, if it is in arbitration? Sorry for all the questions.

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#25
  • 昭和のおやじは口が臭い
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 20:30
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You, a lifelong unmarried man, tell me that, tho.

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#26
  • 結局
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 20:36
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If we forget to appreciate each other, we're headed for divorce

Because the obvious is not the obvious.

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#27
  • 日本男児
  • 2021/12/23 (Thu) 20:55
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In my experience, you can date foreigners, but you can't marry them.
Especially Americans are hard.
However, after dating a foreigner, I was able to reconfirm that it is Japanese people I want to marry.

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#28
  • ウザい
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 00:43
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27 guy thought he was trying to make it seem like he could date non-Japanese ？ lame, creepy, annoying.

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#29
  • 日本男児
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 01:41
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It's tough for you who are not popular lol
It's quite normal to date foreigners when you come to America, and once again I just thought that you can't get married unless you are Japanese.
Well, I guess you won't be taken seriously by the Japanese either.

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#30
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 06:57
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#25

If you do what you are told, you will be told.

Put your hands on your chest and think it over, ha-ha-ha.

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#31
  • 妄想？
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 09:32
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Americans are Asian Americans ？

Japanese men who can date white women are very rare

There is nothing more unattractive than Japanese men

Don't put yourself on their level

I feel sorry for you

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#32
  • 妄想？
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 09:34
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American is American if you have American citizenship

No matter how many people you are, they are all different

An Americanized woman would not choose a man who is atrocious like a Japanese man.

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#33
  • 日本男児
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 15:55
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You must be pretty unattractive lol
I've dated Americans, Canadians, Europeans, and Latinos.
By the way, I'm tall and work out to some extent, but maybe you're short and skinny ？ lol
You must feel inferior to white people, don't you?

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#34
  • 笑
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 16:27
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↑ That doesn't sound like a line from a popular guy

Talk in your sleep.

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#35
  • 笑
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 16:44
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Inferiority to Whites ？

For example ？

I hear you're the one who feels inferior.

I'm not lacking in women.

Well done!

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#36
  • 日本男児
  • 2021/12/24 (Fri) 21:50
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Yes, yes, you change your HN every time because you are not confident.
Idiot virgin www.
When did you say Japanese men are not popular, Showa era, lol

> Japanese men who can date white women are very rare

At this point you are showing your inferiority complex
Good for you, being popular in your fantasy, lol!

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#37
  • W
  • 2021/12/25 (Sat) 04:35
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↑ You don't look popular.

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#38
  • 離婚は大変
  • 2021/12/25 (Sat) 04:56
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But you still get divorced, so you must be very good at it.

I've wanted to divorce a million times, but if you're going to go that far, make up, usually.

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#39
  • バツイチ
  • 2021/12/25 (Sat) 18:50
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Divorce is a momentary pain, but I'm so glad I experienced the sense of freedom after the divorce.
I am really happy now.

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#40
  • 日本男児
  • 2021/12/25 (Sat) 19:00
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You who are actually not popular with foreigners don't say that.

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#41
  • かもね
  • 2021/12/26 (Sun) 08:16
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When I complain about my husband to divorced people, they tell me to leave him fast ？. I don't hate my husband enough to divorce him, but I do complain about him. But I'm happier than being single, so I'm not divorcing him.

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