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Economic DV ？

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#1
  • Yumi
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  • 2022/05/01 10:55

I am raising a child.
I am supposed to have joint marital property including my husband's salary, but he won't let me touch his accounts and asks me questions about every single credit card statement.
Is this considered domestic violence? ？
I can give him the money he needs to live, but I mean that he cannot manage our common property together.

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#35
  • Yukina
  • 2022/05/14 (Sat) 22:47
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I really pity this guy, he can't get around in real life or on the internet.
#31 disappeared and #34 came up.
You said it in #33, so you erased it.
This doesn't seem like it would be wise to get along well with those around you, let alone your husband, and I agree with what some of you are saying. But I'm really sorry I didn't say it better.
Thanks, that was pretty interesting ！
natkore ！

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#36
  • 病みすぎてウケた
  • 2022/05/14 (Sat) 23:11
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↑ I didn't delete it
it was deleted

you look stupid and your comments are not funny

I think I am getting around ？ LOL

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#37
  • Yukina
  • 2022/05/14 (Sat) 23:54
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Were you erased?
You didn't say anything bad.
Well, I don't know if it's true, but if you were deleted, I wonder what happened to you, Vivinavi.

Well, I'm not trying to be funny, and I'm not trying to get around.
I don't really feel the need to.

I guess the Lord needs to get around.
It would be a shame, because then she could get out of the economic DV?(according to the Lord) and have a better relationship with her husband.
If you can earn your own money, you can also be in the same position or superior in a good way.
Sometimes people say they can't get divorced because they can't earn their own money and can't speak strongly enough to their husbands.
To avoid that, live wisely while thinking ahead ～ I have to tell myself that ～ too.

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#38
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/05/15 (Sun) 07:30
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It seems to have become something of a search for the writing partner's alas.

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#39
  • Yumi
  • 2022/05/15 (Sun) 08:07
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#15Reina
Thank you for your comment. I apologize for replying now since you commented so politely. I don't have any particular preference as to how much I can spend per month. Neither my husband nor I are very wasteful spenders. You know, sometimes there are stores that only accept cash. When I told my husband about it, he often just said, "Oh, I see.
That was when I was first married.
He was young and probably didn't know how to deposit money with his wife who had just arrived on a spouse visa.
It's also the world of "HK market ≪$22 for HK market∩ ？ ！ What did you buy?" when they ask you for your credit statement. It's not that I spent it all.
By the way, I was getting $10 a day in cash at that time.
That covered breakfast and dinner for me and my husband, lunch and lunch for me and my husband. He wanted his lunch and evening meal to be separate.
I once went to a supermarket in tears and bought some green onions for cheap, and some chicken for sale by weight at this supermarket. I had just arrived and had no friends, so it was hard.
I just wanted to talk about my resentment at that time.

You are right about the rest ！
Now it would be better if I left her in day care and started working and I would make more money than you.
thank you ！

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