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#1
  • みさき
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  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#9
  • まさかの
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 00:35
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I vote that it is odd to ask for age at the first word.

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#10

There are people who come to LA because they want to live there, or because they want to get married and have children.
New York is full of people who have a dream and a purpose.
It's too much of a mystery why people come here to have children and be a housewife after winning a green card. Why don't they just stay in Japan? ？ I don't understand why they come to the US.　Well, there are a lot of people like that who are strange and have their own habits, so I guess they don't feel comfortable in Japan
I am a green card holder!
But even if you have a green card, you can only waitress at a Japanese restaurant.

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#14
  • 煮物
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 07:51
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I think it would be harder on the wife who didn't want to come but followed along with her husband.
It is the poor wife who lives in a place she doesn't like for a long time.

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#19
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 11:28
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I am here on the occasion of my marriage due to the circumstances of my partner. What kind of partner's circumstances? How can you simply get married and go to a foreign country that you don't want to live in, just to suit your partner's circumstances?

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#21
  • 気にしない気にしない
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 12:58
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What a couple, there's a lot going on. I don't think it's about playing the victim or divorcing. I feel sorry for people who change their IDs and write for the purpose of melancholy. The more desperate people are for a living, the more they drive others into corners without compassion, so you shouldn't worry about them too much. It is not so unusual for people who have been here a long time and are still getting used to life.
This is especially true if you are immersed in the Japanese American community.
My acquaintance laughs it off, saying, "I still hate English ～.

How about getting physical or finding a hobby?
It's good for your body and good for your mental health.

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