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End of life, separation

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#1
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  • 2022/10/14 10:21

I am in my 70s, but I hear that some people are already preparing for end-of-life planning in their 50s.

In my case, I created a Family Living Trust when I was in my 60s.

We are now considering purchasing a living grave.

One tricky thing is the separation.

This is the only thing that does not go smoothly. I guess it would be better if I just throw it away, but...

My husband has the can't-throw-it-away syndrome, which is compounded by me. The garage is so full of unimportant things that there is no room to step on

. We also have 5 fruit trees in the backyard that are not very big

and the trees are so tall that we have to cut them down on a ladder, but I'm afraid they will fall off the trees one day...

I would like to hear from people who are doing life-supporting activities and decluttering.

Thank you very much.

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#3
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  • 2022/10/15 (Sat) 18:45
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I am in my 60s. I have a grave. I have also decided to have it put in.
I have a lot of stuff. I can't get rid of it. But I have room in my garage for my car. I buy only the bare necessities these days. I buy what I want because I need to have fun. Let's throw away what we don't need. Throw out what is old, worthless, and unused.
What I can't throw away, I will keep until I die, and my family will either get rid of it or keep what it is worth.

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#4
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  • 2022/10/15 (Sat) 21:08
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＞ I buy only the bare necessities these days

#3 you are right.

Today I made more and more scraps for cleaning with lots of clothes.

Then, I will switch my mindset to think that I don't need to get rid of things that I wish I had

and get rid of them.

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#5
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  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 07:28
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4 I made more and more scraps for cleaning with a lot of clothes.
It would have been a shame to do that and still be able to wear them.

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#6
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  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 09:50
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Today I made more and more scraps for cleaning with lots of clothes.

I do that too. Paper towels are expensive and I used to donate them, but when I saw the streets full of clothes, I thought it would be better to use them as rags. If I use them, I throw them away. Then I switched to thinking that what I wish I had, I wouldn't be bothered without.

Good. This thinking. I can't throw away things that are advertised as convenient or useful, but I end up not using them, and I can't throw them away again.

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  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 17:29
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In my case, after I renounced my life, I awakened to my true self and became disgusted with my current life and became apathetic about many things. I want to go back to Japan and live a peaceful life, but I can't go back to Japan until my children are grown up.

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