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ばついちとの結婚
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- 悩む青年
- 2003/01/20 13:39
つきあっている彼女が最近ばついちであることが判明しました。結婚を前提につきあっているつもりでしたが 初婚とばついちの女性は何が違うのでしょうか?
ちなみにわたしは初婚です。真剣に悩んでいます。
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- 魔人V
- 2003/01/20 (Mon) 17:39
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あのよぉ、簡単に言っちまえば時間をかけろってことじゃねぇか?迷いがあるってことは結論がでていねぇ、ってことだろ?
だったら話し合い、同棲、他にも相手との関係が続けられるかわかる方法があるだろう?それをいろいろ試してみてからでも遅くはねぇと思うがな。俺はとりあえず2つしか思い浮かばなかったが、他の奴らがアイディアを出してくれるだろう。
それに結婚を急いでるのかが良くわからねぇ。考えが堅すぎやしねぇか?結婚なんざ、所詮相手を拘束したりする物のような気がしてならねぇがな。
相手の女に関しては、しらねぇしわからねぇから離婚暦はマイナスになるか関係ねぇ。あんたの見る目が正しいか、そうでないかの話だ。
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悩む青年が何故悩むのか、ライオンには理解が出来ない!ばついちだろうがばつにであろうが、そんな事にこだわる必要が無いと思う!今、自分が本当に彼女を愛しているのならば、関係がない。過去にこだわるのは、彼女自身の事が好きでないと思う。人は過去があるから今がある。もし彼女が初婚であっても、彼女の過去の話したくない事が発覚したらあなたはずっと彼女を責めてしまうと思うなあ!男だったら彼女が話しずらかった過去を知ったら当然言いにくい事だった事だから気にしなくていいよ!って言っていつでも彼女をやさしく心から包んであげるのが男だと思う!ようは、あんたが彼女を幸せにする自信があるのか?無いのか?って事だと思うよ。
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ライオンは今がよければ良い的な考え方だな〜。でも、悩む青年が地雷を踏む前に発見できて良かったじゃないか。冗談で相手に「実は俺はバツ2なんだ」といってみては?
別れますと言われたら終わりだね。
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え?#14さんは「バツイチ」女性が地雷ってことですか!?
しかもデリケートな問題なのに、「実は俺はバツ2」って冗談で言うなんて!デリカシーなさすぎ!
「気にしなくていいよ」って言うのと、冗談で言うのは全然違う!
そんな人が相手なら、すぐ別れなくても結婚は考えられない。
- #16
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いまどきめずらしくないでしょー、四人に一人の時代だよ(日本じゃ)。たとえばあなたに×がついてたら次の結婚をするとき何を思う?相手は今それを考えているよ。
結婚するとシングルの時のように嫌だったら別れるってことが簡単にできないこと。だから結婚生活を続けていくことが困難なのよ。つらいこともあるけど半面自分も成長させられるよ。
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