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Furlough Accommodation ？.

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#1
  • maru
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  • 2024/01/30 08:39

Where will you stay during your temporary return to Japan ？ If at your parents' house, will you pay ？ If so, how much ？

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#9
  • 孤独のおとっつぁん
  • 2024/01/31 (Wed) 07:59
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If you were in the opposite situation, would you refuse to pay for four guests from Japan to stay here?

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#11

＞ If you were in the opposite situation, would you refuse to pay for 4 guests from Japan to come and stay ？


Normally, if they come/stay overnight and we allow them, it is because they are immediate family, close friends or their family

and we have no intention of taking their money. If they insist on paying, I say clearly, "No kidding, I have no intention of taking any money. If they insist on paying, I will threaten

them with "I'm going to make peace with our past relationship.


I wonder if the people here who say, "Of course we'll get the money," are the ones who are really in need of it.

Or are they "cheapskates"?

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#13
  • 通りすがりのガーデナー
  • 2024/01/31 (Wed) 13:01
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Individuals ・ I know it varies from family to family, but in my case,

1. When I stay alone at my parents' house where they are spending their old age, I don't pay for my parents' stay
but I do pay for their meals out and things they want, ranging from a few thousand yen to several tens of thousands yen. I pay for or buy things that my parents want, which range from a few thousand yen to a few thousand yen.

2 ， If someone other than me and I stay with my parents, I pay about 3 ～ 5,000 yen ／ a day ／ per person, depending on the length of stay.

3, siblings ・ If they stay with relatives, I do the same 2.

Parents ・ Siblings ・ Sometimes relatives tell me that they don't get any money, but in that case I try to pay something back to parents ・ Siblings ・ Siblings' families by eating out ・ shopping
.

Some people say, "We are family, we don't need money ・ ・ ・," but I just want to express my feelings, so I do this.

Please refer to the above.

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#15
  • 通りすがりのガーデナー
  • 2024/01/31 (Wed) 15:45
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＃ 14

I understand that there are people who have opinions like Showa Ototsan's, everyone is different. I hope that
you will take that into consideration as well.

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#16
  • Nihao
  • 2024/01/31 (Wed) 18:33
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If you stay at the house of an American relative or someone from another state, or vice versa, the person who comes to stay at your house pays for your meals out and such, even if they don't pay you directly.

I don't want to be taken care of unilaterally, so I don't think it has anything to do with being stingy. It doesn't make either of us feel better if we accept the other's goodwill ？.

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