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• きょう
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 12:40
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That, you all usually know. Emotional balance, taking care of yourself to the point of not disturbing your family, are the basics. There are really a lot of people who go out of their way to write about it, just to show off and say they are smart, even though it's normal.

• めいっこ
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 13:45
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I don't want to write anything too negative, but it is true that there are many people who give very basic advice to care givers, even though they are not care givers. But it could be someone who is a natural or someone who is giving advice with the best of intentions. I've been reading the topic itself for a long time and have just kept quiet, but some of the responses are helpful.
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Question for the care givers. Suppose an agent comes in with a case for a very difficult client. How should you be told?

1. I know it's hard, but please do.
(Tell them how hard it is, but still ask for their help)

2. the client and their family are good people.
(I don't tell them how hard it is, but they still ask me to do the work)》

The question is not about which is right and which is wrong, but which you prefer. 1. seems to be more common, but 2. seems to be able to start without preconceived ideas, so surprisingly, some people choose 2. I asked this question in the hope that some of the respondents would choose 2. I asked this question because I thought it would be easier to start without any preconceptions.

• It’s a job.
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:10
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> That, you all usually know.
Emotional balance, taking care of yourself to the point of not disturbing your family, are the basics.
There are really a lot of people who go out of their way to write about it, just to show off and say they are smart, even though it's normal.


Omgomgomg
an exchange square where you can't even say what you want to say
you are free to post what you want lol

this person is too sick and paranoid

ah scary

• It’s a job
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:27
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I don't want to ask such a person to take care of my family. w
Actually, I often hear that men are better caregivers. They say they are kinder. I hear that women are more troublesome because they get emotional and the conversation gets complicated. It seems that men are the ones who can separate it from work after all. I can understand it from the posts here.

• うちの祖母
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:30
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My grandmother, who is a bit of a blur, said that the nurses were always irritated and afraid of every little thing, but the nurses (male nurses) were always kind to her. My mother had them change the nurse in charge of her.