Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

• 団塊
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 17:30
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There's been a lot of talk about this homecoming, but I'll have to think about it.
This area （ South Bay ） has a nice climate and I could stay until the end, but I'd have to think about it if I need nursing home care. Nursing home care is ridiculously expensive and the quality is poor.
So I think my return home will be when I need nursing care, in the sense that I will avoid nursing care. Probably in my mid-80s. I still have more than 10 years to go, so until then, this is the best place for me.
Japan borders the Axis of Evil, so it may be a way to avoid war.

• 今から帰国
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 20:03
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He is in his early 60s. My mother is 90 years old and is in a group home in Japan. She has no dementia and her head is strong, but her legs and back are weak and she is in a wheelchair. My sister lives very close by, but she is unable to care for her at home because of her job. So I decided to return home at the end of the year to spend time with my parents until their final days. I am quite anxious to return home after 40 years in the U.S. 。。。。 I don't know how long my parents will live, but I plan to return to the U.S. after they pass away. If I still have the strength to do so, that is.

As others have written, I think I did so well because I was in the US. I was doing what I love, got married late, had a baby late...and now that my children are finally independent, I suddenly think about my mother every day.... I was supposed to return to Japan before Corona, but it was decided that foreigners were not allowed in the country, so I had to stay two years longer. It is a belated act of filial piety.

• ？
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 21:19
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Happy people don't troll here for rough edges.

• ？
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 21:38
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Who is happy ？ Who is rough ？

• みなみ
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 22:35
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I see that each of you are going through your own difficulties. I came to the US when I was in my 20s, and I realized how much I was spoiled by my parents when I was in Japan. Immediately after coming to the US, I found a good company and learned many things. We hear that some people are worried about returning permanently not only for themselves but also for their parents. I still have worries, but as I get older, the worries of the moment come up again. I would like to do something to prepare and be prepared even now so that my worries will be a little lighter.