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End of life, separation

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#1
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  • 2022/10/14 10:21

I am in my 70s, but I hear that some people are already preparing for end-of-life planning in their 50s.

In my case, I created a Family Living Trust when I was in my 60s.

We are now considering purchasing a living grave.

One tricky thing is the separation.

This is the only thing that does not go smoothly. I guess it would be better if I just throw it away, but...

My husband has the can't-throw-it-away syndrome, which is compounded by me. The garage is so full of unimportant things that there is no room to step on

. We also have 5 fruit trees in the backyard that are not very big

and the trees are so tall that we have to cut them down on a ladder, but I'm afraid they will fall off the trees one day...

I would like to hear from people who are doing life-supporting activities and decluttering.

Thank you very much.

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#22
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  • 2022/10/17 (Mon) 21:41
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It would be easy if I could only date people I like, but that's not always possible.
Is it just me?

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#24
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  • 2022/10/17 (Mon) 23:05
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Yes, you guessed it.

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#25
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  • 2022/10/22 (Sat) 21:44
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I used to look for things ＾ ＾ ： a lot.

So I named my suitcase a temporary storage place, and

I would throw in things I couldn't do without. Before, when I wanted to use it, I used to spend 2 ， 3 days

searching all over the room, but now I just go to the temporary storage

and I don't have to stress about searching. ＾ ＾

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#28
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  • 2022/10/23 (Sun) 00:45
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Konmari's decluttering method was also popular, but look for mentalist Daigo's book on decluttering.
The science-oriented way of thinking seemed to suit me and I was able to step away from it.

I don't know if this will help you, but I have moved a lot, and every time I moved, I suffered from packing and threw away things I couldn't bear to throw away, and I thought I would suffer that pain again when I bought things. I have learned to choose the minimum necessary items carefully.

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  • 2022/10/23 (Sun) 04:08
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＃ Mr. 26

＞ You don't have to go to the trouble of leaving your luggage at home ？
It makes no sense

I guess my words were not enough.


I don't mean that I leave it there somewhere, but in my own suitcase in my own house.

That's what we call temporary storage, （ lol ）

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