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• 別居
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 07:28
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You are a typical stupid Japanese
I have seen many people who yearn for America, marry Americans, and as a result are single mothers walking on the bottom of the barrel, so please try not to be like that!

• でた。笑
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 07:38
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↑ A group of life failures.

• ですね
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 07:41
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By the way, immigration is taking quite a while in Corona now, so good luck. As long as your visa is legal and valid, I think you should be fine. I think you should keep some kind of visa until you get a green card because there is no guarantee that your marriage won't be ruined and in case you don't get a green card, you will be in the country illegally.

• てか
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:17
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First of all, I don't mean congratulations ？
That's why you're such a backstabbing BBA.


Congratulations on your marriage ！
It depends on what kind of school you go to, but nowadays, if your partner is American or has a history of attending a questionable school or a language school for a long time, you will be dropped without mercy. It is quite severe.
So, if your VISA history has any record of anything even remotely suspicious, we recommend that you keep your student status with even a 1% risk of being dropped.

• え・・
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:33
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＞ I'm going to be busy with VISA procedures, etc.

It's not so hard that I have to cut classes.

• ってかさ
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:47
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5
This kind of entanglement is Showa.

I'm annoyed by old people who want to blame BBA for everything.

• 上から目線BBA
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:48
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5
You seem to be a little too nice to congratulate strangers, on the contrary, you seem to be troublesome to these people.

• 回答
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:48
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＃ I am sure you are right, 5.
It is too risky to lose the I-20 for marriage from a student visa.
This has been strictly enforced since before Trump, so if you got a student visa to go to school in the US, marrying in the middle of the school year and losing your status is like increasing the chance of being dropped on purpose.
I can't go into details because I don't want to identify you personally, but I strongly recommend that you keep your I-20 anyway because someone I know did this and got into real trouble.

• いつから？
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 08:54
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↑ It's not common to get a green card from a student to an international marriage ？ Since when is it that tough ？ I have friends who got it after Trump, it's normal ？.

• それちょっとわかる
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 09:34
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#8

First of all, the assumption that people who don't say congratulations on your marriage are not good is middle-aged. The assumption and imposition of being old is egregious.

• バイト君
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 09:38
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Does the other man have an income ？
Since he is sponsoring you to get a green card, if he does not have enough income to support you, he will not get a green card no matter how married you are.

• 余計なお世話じゃ？
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 09:44
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Topix I didn't hear that, and the way you phrased it is disgusting, the type of person I would not want to discuss this with #1. LOL!

• 通りすがり
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:03
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#10
Nowadays, it's tougher for someone who had a student VISA than someone who came in as an esta and stayed illegally. All the schools ask for transcripts and proof that you were a full time student. Of course, if you went to a language school for a year and then went to a proper college or four-year program and graduated, you should have no problem. They will give you your transcripts right away. However, if you have ever received an I-20 from a shady school that only has foreign students and you don't have to go there, they will drop you without mercy. A Korean was once arrested and convicted by the immigration authorities for operating a school business for foreign students who did not have to go there, and it got tougher. This is not Trump related since the arrest was made during the Obama era. But it is clear that it got tougher with Trump, and it is not necessarily going to loosen up anytime soon with Biden.

• 通りすがり
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:07
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Supplement.
If you quit school in the middle of your stay, you may be in trouble. What was the purpose of going to school ？?

• 学生結婚でグリーンカード希望。
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:35
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There are a lot of people who came here to get married because they want a green card.

I heard them talking on the phone in English, saying that they were picked up today, and they were so desperate to find a partner that they were melancholy
and they were don't want to be talked to.　They are waiting to be approached, and when they are approached, they give out their phone numbers as fast as they can and wait for those people to call them.　I don't reject anyone who comes to me.
The guys who pick up on you are looking for a one-night stand or to fuck you when it suits them, but you think about marriage alone, and then they don't contact you. I've been repeating this pattern for about 10 years.　Too much pain.

• バイト君
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:43
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#13
There are actually a lot of people who don't know that important part and end up not getting out.

• 回答
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:43
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＃ 10,

＃ 14 and ＃ 15 are right.
"All schools will ask for your transcripts and proof that you were a full time student" ← This is a very strict screening process, and if the school you attended is even slightly questionable, there is a good chance you will be dropped. Even if you are approved, you may have to wait for years for the results, or an immigration officer may come to your house unexpectedly.
Topi is considering reducing her classes, but it is safer to keep her I-20 than to do such a half-assed thing.

• Roopa
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 10:56
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Congratulations on your marriage ！

I was in the same situation as you.
I don't know what grade you are in, but I was in my final year at the time, so I applied for OPT first and asked my lawyer to get me a green card about a month before it arrived.

But as someone above said, you never know how the government will react to a language study abroad program or a comic college, so if you are worried, I think you should hire a lawyer. I would rather pay for the peace of mind than to have a mistake or missing documents ！ because it is not something that can be managed by English skills alone.

Also, if you destroy your I-20, you will have to wait 6 months to a year after your green card application is accepted before you receive permission to leave the country. I was caught up in the Corona disaster and it took me quite a while to receive it.

• 通りすがり
• 2021/01/15 (Fri) 13:08
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You were right.
As #20 said, the travel permit you are applying for is only for those who are legally present at the time of application. So please note that if you leave school and suddenly need to leave the country during the application process, you will not be allowed to enter the country even if you leave.

• にこ
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• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 10:34
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Thank you all for your prompt comments. They were very helpful.

I still decided to ask for a lawyer.
I talked with the lawyer, and he said that I-131 will be submitted with the VISA procedure, so I will not have any trouble entering and leaving the country. Also, he said that even if I destroy the I-20, I can stay in Japan legally during the VISA procedure and there will be no problem there.

However, if he is not approved for a green card, he will not have anything to maintain his status.

I contacted the school and they said that I can continue to take classes when the I-20 is destroyed, but the tuition will not change until I receive my green card.


It is so complicated. Thank you all for your help.
I think it is encouraging to share this kind of information, so I will update again.

• ちなみに
• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 12:15
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Did your lawyer really say that tuition is the same
until you receive your green card ？
I think it is a year after the green card is approved ….

• にこ
• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 15:41
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I inquired about tuition fees with the university.

• ちなみに
• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 18:03
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Sorry, I was mistaken.
But you shouldn't get the same tuition as Americans until a year after you get your green card. You should check again properly.

• どれみふぁどん
• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 19:00
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#26
As soon as you get your green card, if you've been in the US for more than a year, you'll be in the same tuition as an American.
That was me.
Ten years ago when I took the I-20, I was told that if I lost my I-20 even for one day, I would be illegal and my green card application would be denied. Does this mean that they have loosened up in this respect?

• 女警官
• 2021/01/16 (Sat) 23:51
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What's up ？
Suddenly you're making stuff up.

• 暇つぶし？
• mail
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 00:15
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This topi I've made the same post in Hawaii and New York in addition to here.
He has a similar topic in Silicon Valley, though under a different name.
You must have a lot of time on your hands.

• ああ
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 00:20
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If you are a smart person with a financially capable boyfriend, you don't go to a free forum like this to get advice on a VISA that could affect your life. She would consult a good immigration lawyer.

• 釣り
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 00:50
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I don't think this is 24 year old rice.

• 病
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 02:14
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You deleted #28's topical comment from yourself.
Your username had changed, and,
What do you want to do with this topical ？.

• いつもの老廃
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 11:50
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It's a story about a bored old geezer who gives a fake topic and plays with everyone's reactions, but couldn't be a 24 year old student.

• にこ
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 13:45
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Thank you very much. Yes, I will check with the school again.

By the way, if you know of any photographers or makeup artists you would recommend who got married here, I️ ！ am seeking information.

• あほですね
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 15:04
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↑ corona disaster.

• おんなはいいな
• 2021/01/17 (Sun) 21:39
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What I'm doing is
a fu00zo-zero

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 06:04
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Uh-uh.

• うける
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 07:52
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You're a prick who only looks at women that way.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 08:10
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38
You care what other people are doing, Showa Otouto.

• うける
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:00
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> I married an American guy. Now, there are some dull guys in my class since I was a student. For example, I think 1% of all Hollywood and TV celebrity men have Japanese wives. In extreme cases, most Japanese women are married to American men whom they think are cool, but in the end, from the American hot men's point of view, they are still the dull category for America. The women who marry these dull men because they think they are cool are forever mistaken, though.


You're not even at that level, so you're just backpedaling ？ w Women are much more likely to choose marriage based on financial strength and receptiveness rather than facial coolness. The small Japanese boys who are the king of the mountain are not as good looking, economical, or patient. He is at the bottom of the pile, not even those who choose to marry based on his face. ？ He lives his life making fun of women because he is not popular ？ Poor man.

• 可哀想
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:02
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If you feel sorry for yourself, go back to Japan and get yourself a pretty girl. You virgin prick.

• Wow
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:16
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You must have been dumped by a very ugly woman.

• 釣りトピ
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:43
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#43 and #44

You finally wrote that line.
I started this topic for that.

• なぜ日本男児がアメリカでモテないか
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:48
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It is obvious at a glance, except for the exchange plaza

• 女警官
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:52
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A fishing topi raised by a BBA who hates Japanese boys for some reason.

• 是非
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:54
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What are the advantages of marrying a Japanese man in the U.S.?

• おまえだろw
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 10:56
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You know this is a topic started by the Showa era. lol
Delete even the comments you rag on in the middle of the post. You're just a busy and harmful old fool.

• 憎しみ
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 11:02
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Where did the hatred for women in the Showa era come from ？ I feel an unusual hatred for the female police officers and their obsession to bite women. They must be so frustrated that the ugly woman who dumped them got married to a rich white man.

• なんで？
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 12:28
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#49 That's a lonely question. I don't know, I've never thought about getting married on merit ！.

• 是非
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 13:02
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↑ Then why did you decide to get married ？?

• 噛みつきババア
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 15:26
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Too many BBAs criticize but don't give their opinions.

• なんで？
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 15:57
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Of course it's because they like each other. It's not an arranged marriage nowadays. I don't think there are that many people who are married based on merit or conditions.

• ミザリー
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 16:28
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＃ 41
＞ Many Japanese women who come to America have bad character and are weird

I think you also have a lot of character problems if you write such things.
Maybe you should go back to Japan ？

• いやいやそれは
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 16:39
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There are all kinds of people. Marriage is a life, and not all people can get through decades just by liking each other. I've seen many couples who forget about their love for each other after 3 years and stay together only because they have children. There are a lot of people who assume that people's friendships are limited, but there are all kinds of people in the world ？.

• いやいやそれは
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 16:47
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Incidentally, I think it is also wise to choose a marriage partner after determining what kind of person is best suited to you and your values and standard of living in order to stay together for a long time, rather than being married based on merits and conditions. Love is often born for someone who is the complete opposite of you, and while it can be stimulating, it can become exhausting during long marriages. Some people may manage to do so when they are young, but by the time their children are grown up, they want a partner who is like them. Of course, there are couples who get married because they love each other and it works out well. Marriage is definitely more difficult to keep than to get married. There are things you don't understand until decades have passed, and each couple has its own unique form.

• むしろ
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 16:51
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Now is the time when you can choose among people who match your criteria on a matching app. Once you have chosen your criteria, all you have to do is choose a partner with whom you can have an exchange. When you look at romance with a blind eye, you often don't see the other person properly. In the old days, matchmaking actually made sense. It is definitely better to marry someone whose values match your own than to marry someone from a different family background.

• なんで？
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 20:27
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#58-60 That's true, but you're getting a little off topic. This is a response to a question about the advantages of marrying a Japanese man in the US ？. No matter how many years you live in the US, if you fall in love with a Japanese man, you can't help it. I'm saying that it doesn't mean that you won't marry him because there are no advantages to not being American ？.

• ずれてます？
• 2021/01/18 (Mon) 21:10
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> I don't think there are that many people who are married on the merits or conditions that divide them. Here's my opinion on this, though.

• 乳
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 09:45
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No cooking, no laundry, no childrearing, etc., just let your husband do the work and relax in Hawaii for yourself.
This is the benefit of marriage, right?

• なんで？
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 10:09
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#62 I told you it's off. You're a pain in the ass. I'm not disagreeing with you that it's important to know who you're dealing with, so stop pestering me.

• なんだいつもの被害妄想BBAか
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 10:13
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Menopausal BBA who can't even realize she's involved.

• なんだいつもの被害妄想BBAか
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 10:18
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I'm just replying to him and he wants me to stop getting involved. If you don't like the content of the reply, you deny the other person that you are involved. By the way, I was involved because I liked it ？ If you don't want to have a conversation, you shouldn't write.

• びびなびが趣味なBBA
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 11:06
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No, it's true that there are sexist BBAs like #65&66 who change their names and get involved in weird ways with everything.

#64, I'm sure you're offended, but let's just pretend you're pooped and go through with it ！.

• そういや
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 11:09
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Speaking of sexually illiterate, there was KUJI - I think.
similar to the sticky old degenerate who changed his name.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 11:28
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I don't like lick kuji hag.

• jｺ
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 14:37
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I don't want to marry a man who is so dependent on the husband for food, bath, newspaper, soy sauce, beer, and so on.　From the point of view of people over here, they say, "You have to take care of your own things.
I think it depends on the person.　When my friend tried to wash her boyfriend's underwear and clothes, she was told not to touch them ！ because she would do it herself.

• 567
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 17:32
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↑
When did this happen?
Many Americans act like gentlemen outside and are the worst at home.

• 憶測だけど
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 19:11
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Tangled BBA is an impersonation of Grandpa ？ ？ He's the only one who changes his HN around and gets tangled up.

• 崩壊
• 2021/01/19 (Tue) 19:33
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He is no longer taken seriously by BBA, so he makes up his own act.

Poor old waste.

• パンデミック中
• 2021/01/26 (Tue) 17:18
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Is immigration a functioning ？?

• v
• 2021/01/26 (Tue) 20:02
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I'm a 50+ year old language student who still can't get married.

• 市民権申請中
• 2021/01/26 (Tue) 20:05
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Citizenship is also stopped ？ I'm not in a hurry, which is fine.