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• 新ママ
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 03:22
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What ？
Where does it say you don't work ？
You have a lot of assumptions
I envy you in this day and age that you can be a full-time housewife

Your husband is another child you can take care of
You ask him to do things you can do yourself
he even asks me to do things he can do himself

it's better to get a divorce
half the property is enough and half the child care

who can recommend a good divorce lawyer?

• 新ママ
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 07:43
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I hear it all the time
In this day and age, it's old-fashioned to be concerned about marriage

If you divorce, it's the man who regrets it
He gets half the property and has to take care of half the kids
You don't know how well you're shadowing That's why you can come here once in a while and complain
？ then go ahead and do it, you'll be gone soon because you can't stand it
you can take care of yourself

• びっち
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 12:41
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Normally, you would date a guy for 3 or 5 years, think he is the right man for you, and decide to marry him
You should realize before you get married that your husband is just another child you have to take care of
Or did you get married without having that much time ？ Maybe you had sex right after you met him and it just happened, or you needed GC support ？ Maybe it was your fault ？. You needed support or maybe you have your own faults .

• 新ママ
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 21:06
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>Normally, you go out with someone for three or five years, think he'll be okay, and then you decide to get married

I'm not sure whose normal is normal, but ？

>You should realize before you get married that your husband is just another child who needs a lot of care
What ！ how do you realize before marriage ？ w

> or did you get married without time ？ or you slept with him right after you met him and it was done, or you needed GC support ？ or you are not at fault. You're not at fault either ？

Are you talking about someone you know ？ 🤣

• 強い
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 22:22
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You don't need a husband because you're strong topi ！ You should get a divorce as soon as possible ！ I think you can make it on your own.

• ADHDだね
• 2024/04/16 (Tue) 23:09
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Children with ADHD are said to be irritable and easily angered.
People with ADHD are said to have distinctive facial features. For example, they may appear younger than their actual age, have distant eyes, and bad teeth.
Irritability and rage are present in almost all mental disorders.

I feel sorry for the child's future.

• ウマシカハンター
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 02:40
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If you don't care about marriage, divorce is the solution.
Why don't you just take action instead of making a topic here and whining about it? LOL!

• 新ママ応援
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 14:02
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Complaining and venting. Emotion-focused coping is effective for stress reduction.

• 新ママ
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 14:14
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I'm rooting for you, new mom ！.

• Take
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 15:49
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My wife is really happy with herself for not being such a topsy-turvy person.

• #さざえ
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 22:09
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It's refreshing just to have someone listen to me complain.

• 普通に
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 22:31
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If I have time to write, I need to take a nap
I don't have the energy to bitch about it.

• バツイチ
• 2024/04/17 (Wed) 23:03
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You don't get divorced while you are complaining
you stop complaining
if you decide to get divorced

divorce is easier mentally
you don't need a man when you get older
you don't need someone to take care of you eventually
if they have financial resources, divorce is possible
you don't have to take care of your spouse or their parents

• Lol
• 2024/04/18 (Thu) 11:20
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> a line often heard
nowadays it is old-fashioned to be concerned about marriage

why did you get married in the first place?

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• 2024/04/18 (Thu) 18:19
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I agree with you ！ I'm looking for friends here, married people are all over the place, you should settle your marriage affairs together instead of complaining about your husband here
Married adulterers are really annoying, if husbands are husbands, wives are wives.

• ともこ
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• 2024/07/25 (Thu) 02:12
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I've been waiting for you ！
I want to say what I want to say ！
I hate my selfish husband.
I'm good, but not you.
I won't tell you where I'm going or when I'm coming home, but you can.
I go out drinking with men and women, but not you.
My friends are my friends, your friends introduce me, or I'll tear you apart.
I'm an alcoholic and a moral harasser.

• ともこ
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• 2024/07/25 (Thu) 02:17
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It's very difficult to control a moronic husband. Let me at least complain here. If you don't want to read it, you don't have to come here. I don't want a divorce. I want revenge.

• ともこ
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• 2024/07/25 (Thu) 02:39
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My husband never apologizes.
Sometimes he tries to make amends by doing household chores, perhaps as an apology.
If it's a small mistake, that's fine, but you can't do something definitively wrong and then say
I did the dishes, so forgive me. I hate you already.
It's cool for a guy to be able to quickly apologize.
If you can't say sorry, you can say
I'm sorry.
Men who can't apologize are tiny.
Living with someone like that is stressful.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん.
• 2024/07/25 (Thu) 10:28
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The use of agree is wrong.
I can understand if you agree.

• さよ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 00:10
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#42
You don't have to go out of your way to say that …
I think you should have a place to vent your stress. We have a lot going on in my family, but we have to settle our relationship through trial and error and mutual compromise. I think the stress that occurs there is necessary for housewives who don't have time alone. It's mean to go out of your way to stir things up, husband of a wonderful wife.

• あつこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 08:02
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Tomoko-san

revenge ❗ ️
I understand
I realized that I really hate her
I've been married for 15 years
even if I divorce her, half of the property is mine
thanks to inflation, the house price went up a lot.
I thought I could survive on my own
I asked her to divorce me
because I agreed to half the property and custody of the kids
At first she was upset and said she didn't want me to do it
but she changed her attitude and became a different person.
At first he thought that divorce was just talk
After that he harassed me again several times
but I told him to divorce me
I don't feel anything for you, not even anger
. I'm still ready to divorce her anytime
I'm completely cold and I don't expect anything from her
I'm not even expecting anything from her
I've been making separate meals for her I'm not even expecting anything from her. <2266> we cook separate meals and have separate bedrooms
he has agreed to travel with friends
if not, I will divorce him
I have decided to live my life
I don't think I would do anything for him
I honestly don't see the point in staying with him
if he doesn't attack me, I'm tired of divorcing him
so for now I think I'll stay with him
I talk to a lot of people I know and work with widely
there are many husbands who are aggressive towards their wives I've heard they've gone to counseling but it doesn't seem to cure them completely
Some of them are very serious malaise husbands who would divorce if they go to counseling
I'm sick of having an engaged relationship with someone and I don't want a girlfriend
I don't think so far.
I'm not divorced, but I don't have feelings completely, so it's practically like I'm divorced
Until I need care, I'll use that man's property to hire someone
I've heard that in the US if you go into a home, you don't have long
I think that's fine
I think you deserve it
he even told me your life is worthless
as he said it is worthless to you, why don't you get a divorce
I don't even care about that

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 09:44
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Atsuko
Thank you. Living with Mora husband, I don't have the freedom or the right to make decisions, so it satisfies my need for approval to have someone who can empathize with me in these matters. You may think I am living with a monster when I say it like this, but on the surface, Mora Husband pretends to be a sensible person, and he is kind in a way. He is also considerate.
So it is hard to tell from the outside.
I think it's a matter of "God is the only one who doesn't touch me," and if I don't get deeply involved and just go about my life without any problems, there will be no problems. However, if I have difficulty going out or if there is something I don't like, I become grumpy and uncooperative. When I come home a little late, all the lights in the house are off or locked.
But I do go out and have fun with women.
Basically, I'm good, but you're not.
When I ask why, it's just a flirtation.
Because he is a childish person who cannot control his intense jealousy, suspicion, and constraint.
He doesn't even give me money.
But I don't mind at all. I earn money. I know that a "mora husband" is actually a mentally weak and childish person. It was hard before, but now I'm fine. I'm fighting back bravely. Or rather, I use them as tools.
Now that I have no more love for her, I feel very peaceful.
When a woman's patience reaches its limit, she cools off at once, doesn't she?
I'm not interested in them at all when I'm cold.
I think you should be free to play with women as you wish. That woman will just become the next target of your mora. I can give it to you if you want. I'm a bald old man and have no money.
A divorced man in California is strapped for cash.

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 10:14
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Of course there are those who have wonderful wives, and
I understand that there are couples who are happy together. I just want to complain. If you are offended, don't come to this topic. I can't tell my friends and acquaintances, so I'm venting here.
I know that telling my acquaintances won't do me any good. I just end up talking about it. I can't let my friends spend their valuable time complaining. Surprisingly, it's the wives who are doing the right thing who may be venting here.
In front of my husband, I am just a normal wife.
I cook and work. I just have a tiger in my heart.
Who do you think you are ？
If you attack me any more, I will double back ！
and I am resentful. A woman's anger is hard to see from the outside. They are enduring.

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 10:20
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Atsuko
Thanks for the empathy. Women are fulfilled just by being sympathized with and listened to.
Here in the U.S., the times are in order and I make a lot of money, but
when I think that it is my husband's fault that I am suffocating
I stop and think about what I should do about my second life. I feel that it is time to ask
what has been done to us, rather than
how we are now as a mature couple.
Can we live with trust and respect?

• 穫
• 2024/07/28 (Sun) 09:24
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I guess Mr. >75 simply didn't have eyes to see. Or maybe it was both of us ？

Atsuko-san had an eye to see ？?

• あつこ
• 2024/07/28 (Sun) 09:28
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> On the surface, Mora's husband pretends to be a sensible person, and he is kind in a way. He is also very considerate.
So it's hard to tell from the outside.

I know
be ready for divorce at any time
when it's time to leave, it's up to you

• Ms Taiwan
• 2024/07/28 (Sun) 13:39
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We have a good marriage, but I think we are a little bit of a couple. ？
Lately I seem to be the only one asking her out.
I agree with what you said about the sex drive of men and women being inversely proportional to age.

• ボケの爺
• 2024/07/29 (Mon) 12:59
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Monterey Park 15 yr old missing person case
After a messy divorce case over custody of the child, the woman took the child
The child felt unsafe with his mother and did not want to stay with her, so he went to his father for help and protection
The police arrested him
The father had no choice but to hide the child in secret because of the court's decision The mother's side seems to be sitting on the case, saying that she did nothing wrong. The mother is sitting on her hands saying she did nothing wrong, but the public is becoming very critical of her
I'm scared, scared, scared!

• ママル
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• 2024/07/30 (Tue) 09:25
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My husband's friends think I'm a crazy wife who is tightly bound. It's so frustrating.
I had a lot of great friends and was having a good time, but he knows that I'm the one who spread strange rumors, got into trouble, and made them get along with each other. It's hard when you know this kind of human nature.
Even if it's good for me, I don't want my wife to do the same thing.
It's fine for me to see other people's wives being rowdy at a drinking party, but I'd rather enjoy it,
I don't like it when my own wife does it.
It's all right for me to drive someone else's wife, but I don't like it when my wife has someone else drive her. My husband is much tighter and harder on me than I am on him.
And yet, it's really hard for him to say I'm a crazy person.
I hate this kind of husband and his friends.
I guess these little things will cast a shadow over the relationship and
I'll say good-bye.

• 自己中
• 2024/07/30 (Tue) 11:53
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There was a wife who said on TV that she wasn't in bondage even though she was on line 100 times a day. I hope she realizes that's called bondage.

• さち
• 2024/08/01 (Thu) 07:55
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My husband cannot escort.
He immediately walks in front of me. I feel miserable when I have to toddle behind men in America. My husband compliments other women even in front of me. I feel miserable.
That ？ I thought we were in America ？ It's like Tokyo 24, Torrance
I am disappointed in my husband who is alive.
I remember how good my ex-dan was after I left him for so many reasons.
It was a bitch~!

• 強欲
• 2024/08/01 (Thu) 17:02
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There is no fog of greed
You can either admit it
or you can't admit it and seek it out.

• Gigi
• 2024/08/04 (Sun) 17:35
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My husband does so little housework that I'm beginning to think it would be easier to live alone in my old age.
When I came back from a business trip, there were so many things to clean up.
Ahhh....

• それゆえに
• 2024/08/05 (Mon) 11:38
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No
Same if wife earns money
Useless adult child who can't do housework and childcare because he doesn't earn money
Even if he gets divorced, he will take half of his property
Too scared to leave his children and pay child support
Most men
most men can only do one thing at a time
they are not good at housework and childcare
they don't take care of their children because they can't read their partner's mind they take their children to their own things

most families have
no money but they are good men They either do not make much money but are good men, or they make a lot of money but do not take care of their children, or
they work together and share the household chores and childcare.

• お互い様
• 2024/08/05 (Mon) 17:43
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＞ Most men can only do one thing at a time

That's a synonym for women.
Single mothers who have planned to have a child, but they sound like tragic heroines, but the dissatisfaction is mutual.

• それゆえに
• 2024/08/05 (Mon) 19:11
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No, no, no, Americans are very supportive of childcare
and they make a lot of money
so it's Japanese men who are useless, housework and childcare is a woman's job

• 事実
• 2024/08/05 (Mon) 21:50
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There are a lot of single Japanese mothers with ex-husbands who are American or military, so you can't be wrong.

• 笑
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 07:49
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> No
Same even if wife earns money
Useless adult child who can't do housework and childcare because he doesn't earn money
Even if he gets divorced, he will take half of his property
Too scared to leave his children and pay child support
Most men can only do one thing at a time
they can only do one thing at a time
they are not suited for housework and childcare they can't read their partner's feelings, so they don't take care of the children
they take the children to do their own things so they don't grow up

no matter how much money they make, they would never choose a man like this No, you wouldn't choose this kind of man even if he made money. LOL, that's too extreme.
It's good to have more options if you can make money. If you don't get the right guy, you can always move on to the next one.

• セントラル
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 09:35
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What is it that makes me feel like a "thinsmommy" ？
I don't go to the supermarket with my kids and their mother ？
I think they look at me funny and creep me out.

• ミドル
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 10:31
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I can usually tell by the time of day
during the day, housewife; in the evening, after work, I take the kids shopping for dinner
I don't look at them funny, I look at them like I feel sorry for them because I can't even bring them back to Japan.

• セントラル
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 14:29
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There are even women who have weekdays off, and housewives
who go to the supermarket after their kids' lessons.

Why do you pretend to understand so much at a quick glance that you feel sorry for them because you can't even bring them back to Japan ？ You are definitely a suspicious person who is staring at me strangely.

• いつの時代の人？
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 21:41
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They can't bring him back to Japan ？
There are a lot of half and bilingual people working in the Japanese entertainment industry and YouTubers ？.

• TRASH
• 2024/08/07 (Wed) 08:45
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There was a Japanese symaphora who was internationally wanted for violating the Hague Agreement
I'm talking about divorced people with minors, not adult children ？.

• 恋する母たち
• 2024/08/09 (Fri) 11:24
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There seem to be a lot of husbands who think like only our wives are okay.
There are also a lot of husbands who think and assume that they are playing but their wives are venting at girls' night out.
It's better to be the wife complaining here
I date my ex-boyfriend every time I come back to Japan with my kids
I guess we are free to do whatever we want
It's not bad to watch from the corner of my eye like a reality show, but
I want to be the husband walking around playing. I think it's not bad to watch from a distance like a reality show, but I see a husband walking around playing with his wife, and I look at him and think, "Congratulations. If you play, your wife has just as much fun doing it.
Women's love is hard to see from the outside. They are good at hiding it. I bet it would be better for your husband if he never knew. He will be upset.

• TheScene
• 2024/08/26 (Mon) 00:18
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I'm a Caucasian guy and I just ended my marriage of 11 years.
Divorce is hard but I want to marry a Japanese again.
please send me a messege if you want to talk to me. I have 3 children. I have 3 children.
My children are 4, 2 and 1 years old.
I don't think your husband is the only problem... Married life is hard. Especially when you have children.

• 辞めとけ　.
• 2024/08/26 (Mon) 11:05
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Eleven years, huh? Planned divorce for a Japanese wife.

• フランス
• 2024/08/26 (Mon) 15:25
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Wife and lover
Husband and lover

In France, many people are openly in love even after marriage as a matter of course

I admire a relationship where we are not tied to each other

You are married, you can't be in love ？
I do fall in love.

• 日本
• 2024/08/26 (Mon) 18:24
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Japan is a top class adulterous paradise, especially for women who choose to perform in adult films because they can get paid by professionals.

• TRASH
• 2024/08/26 (Mon) 23:51
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If you have 3 kids, the tax removals + subsidies from the government and local government are enormous. Let's learn a little.

• Smh
• 2024/09/01 (Sun) 23:54
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Study ？ LOL
I don't think I would write like you if I had a study or actually had kids.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　.
• 2024/09/02 (Mon) 08:48
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For poor singles, an apartment is enough.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん　　　.　　　.
• 2024/09/02 (Mon) 09:40
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For a poor bachelor, a blue tent is enough.