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• 悩まない性格に改革
• 2021/01/26 (Tue) 19:57
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I'm prepared to comment on this at the risk of criticism.

Troubles come from spending too much time thinking in your head without acting. And the most troublesome trouble is that you can't let go of the unobtainable hope forever. In other words, giving up. First of all, the shortest way to get rid of unfulfilled desires is to give up on them. Trying to make the right choice based on useless knowledge and information is a good thing, but it is not necessarily true for everyone.

First, write down your problems and desires on paper. Then, after consulting with them to some extent, don't discuss them with others until you have made a decision. No matter how good the advice you receive, if it does not apply to you, you will feel lost and even self-loathing. The person asking for advice is also a human being, and there are many people who will poke water into the decision you have made. The important thing is not to make the right choice, but to make your own decision. If you make a mistake, you can start over again. A good counselor is not someone who can give you the answer, but someone who can help you find the right answer.

People's happiness comes in different forms. Getting a good job at a good company, getting married, and having children is not the only way to live a good life. Some people are relieved by sharing these values, while others feel suffocated. Only you know the answer. Consultation is only a pathway to finding yourself.

Don't worry, just act. Just by distancing yourself from unwanted information and relationships, you may find a path that suits you.

• keiresume
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 06:12
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#16
You say good things. Are you a professional in these related fields ？
I don't trust others, including counselors, so much so that I would like you to
be my counselor.
I am disappointed in doctors, lawyers, accountants.
please write better.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 06:43
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#16 I think you are right. I will keep that in mind. When I was going through a divorce and didn't know what to do, I called a free consultation service and was told by a meddlesome woman to reconsider and talk things over, without getting an accurate answer. In the meantime, my American counterpart had beaten me to the punch and kicked me out of the house, and I had a terrible time. Since then, I have never called that free consultation service again. They are a bunch of amateurs, mainly self-aggrandizing Obaba with their personal values. Maybe they are good for people who are lonely and want to talk in Japanese. Even many of my friends give me information I don't need. If you are lonely, you will make unnecessary mistakes in your choices and respect other people's opinions.

• AI
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 08:18
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AI counselors are starting to become popular in the U.S., aren't they?
Since interpersonal feelings are eliminated when dealing with a computer, feelings of embarrassment are eliminated and one can express one's true feelings without hiding them.
It is expected that AI will be able to solve problems more objectively and extensively than humans.

• 悩まない性格に改革
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 08:58
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Ultimately, most of our worries are human relations.

If AI becomes widespread in many fields, I believe that the number of problems in the workplace and friendships will decrease dramatically.

People today have easy access to a world that had nothing to do with them because of the Internet, which has made it easier to discover their potential and talents, but at the same time, there are too many options to choose from, which is a cause for worry.

Mr. 18
It seems that the gentler people are, the more indecisive they are. They tend to put themselves on the back burner out of respect for others. But it is a lossy role, so you have to balance it out and live well.