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別れるべき?
- #1
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- tinkerbell
- 2003/04/05 11:59
あたしは最近付き合いだした人がいます。その彼は同棲している彼女がいます。
最初は落ち込んでたあたしをなぐさめてくれる感じで始まりました。お互い軽い気持ちだったと思います。今でもあたしは彼に対する気持ちが本気ではないような気もします。でも彼のことは好きです。自分でも矛盾した気持ちが整理できてないです。
彼は愛には色んな形があるからという考え方です。つまり彼氏彼女という形にならなくても存在する愛はあるって言うか。。。
向こうも本気って言うか本命としてあたしを見てないのは分かるし、どっちかといったら飲み友達+sex friend+ちょっと愛、って感じだと思います。
こういう関係ってやめたほうがいいと思いますか?
- #8
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みなさん意見ありがとうございます。
今日少し考えてみてやめたほうがいいかなぁと、思いました。
けど実際未練というか、きっぱり切れない気持ちがあります。
自分が本当にスキかどうかを、どうやって知るのかも分からなくなった感じです。
彼のどういう態度、言葉に注目したらいいと思いますか?
- #9
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私はtinkerbell さんとおんなじことを以前してましたが、相手の彼女のことを考えてきっぱりわかれました。(といっても付き合ってないけど、)自分がもしほかの彼氏ができて、彼に今の自分のような存在の女の人がいたらいやだなーと思ったら、急に悪いことしてるみたいになって、決心しました。本当に好きなら心の中に大切にしまっておくのもひとつの愛の形ではないでしょうか?嫌いになる必要もないし、、、私は今、新しい彼氏ができましたが、前のその人のことは恋人とは違う”好き”でいます。
- #10
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二股野郎(失礼!)にろくなのはいないよ。遊びと割り切って付き合えないんなら、さっさと別れるこったね。もう少し自分にプライド持ちなよ。良いスタートしなけりゃ終わりも悪し。
- #11
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私もつい最近まで不倫中の彼がいました。でもいったん別れて今は友達でいます。私も自分から別れを切り出した時はすごくすっきりしてたけど、一度寄りが戻って相手から切り出されたときはどうしても未練というか、割り切れないキモチでした。ただこういう場合はっきり言って関係がフェアではないので、女の方は「孤独」という弱みにつけこまれ、利用されてるだけだと思います。あなたがもし、この関係を続けている中で何か必要以上のことを我慢しているor犠牲にしているのなら即別れるべきです。こういうタイプの男って完全に自己中心的だと思うから。あなたのプライオリティを紙に書き出すなどしてもう一度冷静に考えて見ましょう。
- #12
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”やめたほうがいいよ”ってみんなに言われて、”じゃ、やめる!”って思えるなら止めた方がいいでしょうね。
#7さんじゃないけど、結局やめるかどうか決めるのは自分。他人に”やめろ”といわれても”でも、好きだし、、”って思ってる内はやめられないし。
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