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どうしたら心が壊れずにすみますか?
- #1
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- かっちゃん悩んでます
- 2008/06/05 01:13
1年同棲し結婚したとたん主人が遊びに走りました。
風俗に行ったのです。私は傷つき、泣き、体も壊し、自律神経失調症にまでなってしまいました。もう二度としないというや充足も半年続かず、2度目が発覚し、夫婦関係もなくなりました。(私が無理になりました)今まで尊敬したいましたが、そんな気持ちもすっかりなくなってしまい、どこかで夫を馬鹿にしていて、私自身は自尊心が傷つきいつも惨めな気持ちに支配され、苦しんでいます。
交際当時は会社でも私の前でも紳士で真面目でゆうことなしの男性でした。会社と家庭とでは分ける、二面性のあるタイプのようです。結婚したとたん、態度が変りました。
手に入る前はとにかく優しく、家事も手伝いましたが結婚後、がらっと人が変り(本性を出した?)、ました。
こんな夫とこれから長い夫婦関係が築けるか悩んでいます。
信頼関係が結婚スタートと同時にマイナス100から出発し、これから子供を授かるとは考えられません。
しつけされず、勉強だけ、肩書き重視の家庭で育った長男の夫です。ご両親に相談した時は「あんな真面目な子が風俗遊びするんあんて妻が甲斐性がないからだ!」とご両親、妹さんにも責められました。
- #4
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- チョコボールむかい
- 2008/06/05 (Thu) 05:30
- Report
不倫で悩んでますと同じにおいがす(ry
- #5
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- Mr.Monk
- 2008/06/05 (Thu) 11:31
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『トピ主が本当に悩んでいる』が?なんだよね。
最近また多いよね。『不倫で悩んでます』や『彼が結婚してるかも』とか似たようなトピが沢山ね。しかもトピ主悩んでますって言っておきながらトピに不参加ってのもあるくらいだからね。 チョコボールむかいさんの言うその気持ちも分かる。
- #14
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特に悩む事ないと思いますよ。結婚後死ぬまで浮気や風俗を経験したことにない男は99%いないと思いますよ。それがノーマルな男の欲望でしょ。
結婚後生涯妻だけなんていう男はまずいないですよ。あなたももっと現実的になったらどうですか。それに貴女が描いていた結婚前の彼は貴女が理想化していただけだと思いますよ。ご自分の理想の世界を裏切られてぼろぼろに成っているのではなくもっと現実の夫との付き合い方を考えるべきですよ。きっとあなたのエクセントリックなとこが彼には窮屈なのかもしれませんよ。
- #13
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#3さん、優しいお言葉有難うございます。涙
真剣に悩んでいるので中傷や茶化すのはどうかご遠慮ください。
私を平気で傷つけた夫ですが、私が病気になるとアタフタしていました。それでも二回目の風族に行くというのはどうゆう神経なのか、理解できません。
夫は高学歴の家庭で育ち、両親供に医者です。
良く一般的に医者の子供は「しつけ」がされていない、とか、忙しい両親が愛情をたっぷりかける時間がなく寂しく育ったのが原因で家庭を持った時に問題が多々生じると聞いた事があります。
やはり家庭環境も影響しているのでしょうか?
- #12
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釣りではありません・・・。
風俗は日本のへ行ったようです。
独身時代は遊んだことがない人で、主人は浮気と風俗(遊び)は違う!と言います。
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