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Economic DV ?

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#1
  • Yumi
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  • 2022/05/01 10:55

I am raising a child.
I am supposed to have joint marital property including my husband's salary, but he won't let me touch his accounts and asks me questions about every single credit card statement.
Is this considered domestic violence? ?
I can give him the money he needs to live, but I mean that he cannot manage our common property together.

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#23
  • は?
  • 2022/05/10 (Tue) 09:15
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You wrote yourself that you have to do the housework.

Are you okay? This Topi W.

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#24
  • 主婦になりたい
  • 2022/05/10 (Tue) 10:02
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They also ask every single question about credit card statements.

it's normal to check the statement ? if you don't like it, use your own credit card ? you have one made in Japan ? you can get it from your husband later
now you will get divorced and take his property with you. It's scary, isn't it?

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#26
  • せいた
  • 2022/05/10 (Tue) 11:19
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As for #23? As you said, I quoted the same words because the Lord himself wrote "only housework".
You write "only housework" when it seems to be a positive thing for you, and when others write the same word "only housework", you argue with them.

#20Don't you say, "If all you did was housework, what would you do?" No one wrote that, not even the Lord.
The topic itself is titled "Economic DV?

You have not answered any questions that might be inconvenient.
I still don't understand without hearing your husband's side of the story.

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#27
  • Yukina
  • 2022/05/12 (Thu) 01:33
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I think I know this person doesn't trust her husband. We don't know what her husband has to say, and there is no way for us to hear what he has to say. This person is all about his own arguments.
He refutes or ignores advice or questions that hurt his ears.
And even when he is given the same advice, he continues to make his point. As a woman, I think, if you want to complain about the past, why don't you wait until you are independent? I think.
I myself went through a period of great depression and am still having a hard time, but as someone who is married, has children, and a job, I think it is naive.

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#28
  • 新時代
  • 2022/05/12 (Thu) 09:41
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Couples are getting tired of being dependent on each other

From now on, equal and independent marriages will be the norm

More and more people will realize that there's no point in getting married.

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