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Economic DV ？

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#1
  • Yumi
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  • 2022/05/01 10:55

I am raising a child.
I am supposed to have joint marital property including my husband's salary, but he won't let me touch his accounts and asks me questions about every single credit card statement.
Is this considered domestic violence? ？
I can give him the money he needs to live, but I mean that he cannot manage our common property together.

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#100
  • 過去の精算
  • 2022/05/16 (Mon) 21:04
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America doesn't get in your face about your personal situation. Maybe she wanted someone to listen to her past that no one understood. I hear a lot about the emptiness of being a career woman and then becoming an expatriate wife.

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#103
  • Yukina
  • 2022/05/16 (Mon) 22:10
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I just asked about the discrepancy because it seems that someone besides me thought "?" so I was just asking about the discrepancy.
I'd like to know what part of you is taking it out on me.
And can you tell me if there is or isn't a contradiction in the Lord?
If there are, I hope you can also tell me why this happened.

If you have a solution, why don't you show it? =Moral harassment" Some people take that as a "=moral harassment", right?
If the Lord is the one giving advice, he may be able to help others in the same position.
The Lord is so full of himself, that he would run away without explaining the contradictions he has brought up, so I guess it's impossible. Too bad.

The Lord complains without being independent.
You may say it in different ways, but if you're like that, why don't you earn your own money? Various people have commented on it.
If you earn money and are not allowed to manage your accounts, then either you are not trusted at all, your husband is too strict, or you are not able to roll with him as a spouse.

Either way, I'm going to work from now on (super-professional? It must be a special job that only someone like the Lord can do. More than a doctor, more than a scholar? What? That's great. \That's not much to talk about, is it?
The same level of phrases that people who haven't done it say, "I will ！ I can do it ！ It will work ！".
Sorry, I said too much.

I too thought there was a pattern to the Lord's defensive comments, but I kept quiet.
I knew it, the people who get caught know.
In a way I feel sorry for you. Tears. Ganbare Lord.

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#104
  • わーお
  • 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:12
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Yukina, in real life, you are divorced and your common-law husband is financially DV'ing you and not harassing you ？ I don't think so........................

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#105
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  • 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:24
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What does Yukina want ？?

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#106
  • ひとりよがり
  • 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:24
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↑ I thought the same thing
I've been harassed so I become the harasser
I bet she's the type of person who doesn't ask her friends for advice lol

Kucha Kucha Kucha

She's so stressed out
Oh my god

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