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ばついちとの結婚
- #1
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- 悩む青年
- 2003/01/20 13:39
つきあっている彼女が最近ばついちであることが判明しました。結婚を前提につきあっているつもりでしたが 初婚とばついちの女性は何が違うのでしょうか?
ちなみにわたしは初婚です。真剣に悩んでいます。
- #7
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けど聞いたところでxいちの女で自分に問題があったなんて思う人いないでしょう。よくいるけど絶対自分は悪くないって思ってるんじゃない離婚した人って。
絶対男のせいにするよね。。
- #8
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おたがい分かち合うことできないから破局する。たとえ同棲しても離婚するひとたちはいっぱいいる。
お互いに反省してあわしていかないとだめ。
男ならなるべく相手にあわすようにしよう。(もちろんほどほどに)
女性は自分がただしいとかとおもわずおこるときもあまりさわぎすぎずに自分をおさえるように心がけよう。
↑は一般人。
一般人でないひとはまた別。
それはそれでまたたずねましょう。
- #9
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- 画伯
- 2003/01/20 (Mon) 17:12
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「離婚率のいちばん高い国はロシアで、日本では北海道、どちらも酪農などで自活していける環境が共通している」ってなんかの本に書いてあったな。
「バツイチ=女の性格に問題あり」って考えるのは短絡的かもしれないよ。自立心が旺盛な女だってたくさんいるし、それを受け入れられない男もきっと多いだろう。
#1さん、あんただって昔、別れた女がいるだろう、それと離婚と何が違うって言うんだい?
- #10
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バツイチの方だったら、初婚に比べすでに一度余分に経験してるわけだから、二度目はもう少し慎重になりますよね。 前回の失敗を考慮したうえでの結婚だったら、今回の相手が自分に本当にあっているのか考えるし、もし前回の失敗が自分のせいだったら自分を見つめ直して、もっと良い奥さんになると思いますよ。
- #11
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初婚とバツイチとは結婚に対する期待感と恐怖感が違った。
初婚の時はなんだか勢いでしてしまったところがあるけど、離婚のとき精神的にも手続きの大変さもあって、2度目に結婚するときは「本当にこの人で上手くやっていけるかな?」とよく考えてから結婚した。
初婚時は同棲せず、2度目は1年の同棲後。
#8さんの言うように、同棲しても離婚するひとたちはいっぱいいるかもしれないけど、私は全く同棲せずにいきなり結婚するより『お試し期間』なしでは2度目は踏み切れなかったと思う。
#1さんはちゃんと彼女とは結婚を前提って話はしましたか?相手が「もう結婚なんてこりごり」って思ってるかもしれないので聞いてみたら?
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