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こんな時は・・・
- #1
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- あっこ
- 2003/08/14 12:58
アメリカ生活も2年程、日常生活には慣れましたが、気になる事があります。
今日も図書館で入口のドアを開けようとしたら、中から人が出てきそうだったのでドアを開けて通したんです。
でも彼女、何も言わないでそのまま素通り。
こんな事、イチイチ気にしていてはダメな事は解ってるんですが、どうしてもそんな事が1日中頭の中にあって、イライラしてしまうんです。
その場で何か言えればいいんですが、すぐに出てくるような英語力は持っていないし、、、
多分、私が気弱な事が周りの人にも伝わってしまい、そんな態度を取られる事があるんだと思うんです。
だから次回、同じような事をされた場合、一言言いたいと思うんですが、何て言ったらいいのでしょうか?
馬鹿馬鹿しいのは解ってるんですが、どなたか教えてください。
- #2
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- 牛若丸
- 2003/08/14 (Thu) 13:26
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そういう人には、何も言わないほうがいいと思うよ。
マナーが出来ていないだけかもしれないし、たまたまテスト直前でいらいらしていたのかもしれない。
彼氏と別れそうになってて、そのことばかり考えていてしまって周りが見えなかったのかも。
はたまた、シャイなだけでありがとうって言いたいんだけど言えなかっただけかもしれない。
いろんな人がいて、それぞれいろんな境遇に立たされてますからね。何か言ってその人を変えようとするより、自分が変わったほうが世界観変が変わっていいと思いますよ。
- #3
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- ゆゆみ
- 2003/08/14 (Thu) 13:38
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そんな小さなこと気にする必要もないと思うけど。そんなことあなたが気弱だからどうとか関係ないと思うよ。
マナーが悪い人はどこにでもいるしさ。
アメリカ人でも、ドアをあけてあげて、ありがとうっていわれなかったから、ちょっとあなた失礼じゃないなんて言ってる人みたことないけど。てか、そんなこといちいち言わないんじゃないの?
- #4
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- (°°)〜
- 2003/08/14 (Thu) 15:06
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#2と#3、お二方の意見に同意。
どうしても何か言いたいなら、何も言わなかった相手の背後に向かって、You're welcomeってボソっと言ってみては?
- #5
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- ようするに
- 2003/08/14 (Thu) 15:49
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ドアをあけてあげたのにお礼の言葉がなかったってことだよね?
僕もドアあけてくれただけではときどきしかお礼いわないし逆にドアあけてあげてもお礼いわれたの結構すくないよ。
4番みたいにYou're welcomeっていうのも逆に感じわるい印象あたえるからやめたほうがいいと思う。
お礼がなかったらなかったでそこまでにしたほうがいいよ。流すことをおぼえないとストレスたまっちゃうし。
- #6
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- (°°)〜
- 2003/08/14 (Thu) 17:17
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↑ジョークだって理解してくださいよ。(笑)>You're welcome
ま、わるい印象あたえて当たり前。Sarcasmですから。。。
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