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Those who are caring for a parent.

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#1
  • G
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  • 2023/01/28 02:48

Please let me know your opinion.
I lived in the U.S. for 10 years, but my mother asked me to come back to Japan because she was worried about being alone in her old age.
I was single in the U.S. but worked hard.

I was taking care of my mother while working full time back in Japan, but my health started to deteriorate and I realized that I could not continue to work
at the same time, so I quit the company. I was working happily in my new position and was receiving a monthly salary of 250,000 take-home pay.

I looked for a part time job this time, but it is only 100,000 a month since I work 3 times a week.
I am not married so I have to take care of myself in the future and when I was getting 250,000 I was saving 100,000
a month.

I am quitting my job to take care of my parents, so I would like to receive the amount I would receive if I worked 250,000 - 100,000 a month ＝ 150,000 a month from my mother for expenses
but she does not understand. Why do I have to pay
when I don't pay rent and I even pay for her meals ？
? She doesn't think about my life after my mother dies. What will she want me to do
when I'm 60 years old, taking care of her in her current condition?

My mother received an inheritance from my father and has money to spare. But she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.
Is my claim strange ？?

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#28
  • ぽっくり
  • 2023/01/29 (Sun) 20:37
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I'd like to go out on a limb at about 80.

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#29
  • 人生80年
  • 2023/01/29 (Sun) 21:02
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I eat bad food, eat poorly, smoke cigarettes, and drink deeply.
Living every day doing what you like and getting 80 pts.

No heart attack, no nursing care, no complaining old man whose body doesn't listen to him, no bedridden old man with little consciousness and only prolonging his life.
Euthanasia is a possibility.

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#30
  • 肺がん肝臓がん
  • 2023/01/29 (Sun) 23:10
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If you smoke and drink heavily, you'll have a very painful and agonizing last year, not a pockmarked one.

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#33
  • 大変だね
  • 2023/01/30 (Mon) 15:35
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Topi would like to save 100,000 yen for the future. But with her current part-time job, she can't do that. It won't cost you money for house and food, but you won't have any free money ？ You can't ask your parents to give you an allowance, so you'll have to ask them to give you money to take care of her. Since working full time has taken a toll on your body, you will have to get money for your current part time job and your mother's care. Since your mother doesn't want to go into a senior home, you have to pay her to come back from the U.S. to take care of you. Since she gave up her career in the U.S. to do what her mother wanted, I think she deserves to have the house and food paid for by her mother. I think it's great that he's not just counting on his mother's money, he's not playing with it, and he wants to work as much as he can.

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#34
  • Peanut
  • 2023/01/30 (Mon) 16:43
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Almond, why are you paying rent to your parents ？ Not if your parents are poor and they let you live there. If they hire a caregiver, they don't get rent even if they eat, sleep at night, and live there. Sometimes you get free because you live there, but not if you are a caregiver.
You are so weird.

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