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• 紅夜叉
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 11:27
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It's miserable to live your life worrying about other people's pocketbooks.

• ベニスに死す
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 17:56
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I wondered why Showa-era Otouta-san gave generous and expensive gifts
to young strangers, but now I understand: it's because they're LGBT.
Have a happy Thanksgiving and Christmas with your wonderful friends.

• ぼっち
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 00:31
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I don't know if I'm pitiful for not having friends or if it's just me.
If I act like I don't need friends, inevitably my kids will be less active. It means that I am sorry for thinking that I could have originally had a fun playdate with another child.

I do not limit my children. They are still toddlers, so it's like the adults are getting together on their own and saying let's have a playdate. And I don't participate in that. Maybe I'm just getting by with it for now because the kids are not old enough to make commitments to each other.

> The bottom line is that you unintentionally send a message to your kids not to socialize. It can be your attitude or your genetics.

What do you mean by heredity ？ I'm kind of curious. I thought these things came from the environment.

> What you can do is promote openness in socializing to your children.

I would think it would be difficult to promote it when I don't actively socialize with people 😅 sorry for sulking.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 08:03
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＃ Why do Showa-era fathers generously give expensive gifts to young strangers
That's because, you know, they have to have their computers maintained.
Simple maintenance costs $20, and slightly more elaborate maintenance costs $40.
I always give a gift at the end of the year because I always get maintenance done for less money.

If I go to another maintenance shop, it's $80 plus the maintenance fee just to check
You can easily see which is more profitable.

• グレーターロサンゼルス
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 12:26
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＞ It's easy to see which is more beneficial.

In the Showa period, Ototsuan also gave expensive gifts to botched mechanics. No one could understand Ototsan's explanation why he did that, but it was because he was LGBT. I was convinced. No need to be shy.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 07:59
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If you look up, there is no end. If you look down, there is no end.

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I believe you can get welfare if you are a US citizen. Are you a US citizen or a foreign citizen?
I heard that to live in low income housing you have to provide a bank account statement of your income.
If the government office is not satisfied, they will just call you and explain.

• ガセネタ太郎
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 11:17
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Even GCs can get welfare if they pay taxes. You are too ignorant.

• みえはる
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 13:23
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If you look up, there is no end. If you look down, there is no end.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 15:14
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Even if you get it, you have to spend the rest of your life with a Green Card.
Well, it's OK, I'm going back to Japan permanently.

The citizenship application form asks
Have you ever received welfare from the U.S. government? You have to be careful because the citizenship application form asks you "Have you ever received welfare from the U.S. government?

When a person who used to live in a boarding house went to Japan for a Green Card interview and was interviewed,
the interview examiner asked him if he had received any notifications from the immigration office.
When he answered NO, he received a voluntary departure notice from the Immigration Bureau. The interview ended with
I never came back.

• Adios
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 15:35
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How do you know the story of someone who never came back?

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/12/26 (Tue) 16:10
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It's the art of not saying anything that you don't have to
never tell a lie
if you know that it's the little things that are always barking and howling.

• 年紀
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 17:15
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How many people want to brag, mount up, and be the center of attention at work, at acquaintances, and at whatever association they are at. If you are the boss, you have to be sociable even if you don't want to be because it will get you a raise. I was fed up with the power society everywhere. When I started my own business, I was satisfied with all the good customers who took care of me. Japanese people are nice when they are customers, but they are mean in the company ？.

• 年紀
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 17:20
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There may be a lot of annoying old ladies, but there are also a lot of young, boastful, and obnoxious men who will argue with you or ostracize you if they don't understand you. Or people who are always bad-mouthing others.

• ちょっとわかります
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 23:06
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There is a guy who was acting all high and mighty at work but had his parents paying for his car lease, or living in a one-bedroom rental with two kids and no place for himself when his wife's father came, but he didn't seem to realize that people around him thought he was lame, and he was happy. It was weird to see her acting all bossy to Japanese people but being so condescending to white men.

• 泣き子
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• 2023/12/31 (Sun) 23:21
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Relationships...
I've had times when I thought things were very tiring, but my current company is the worst.
I can't write much about it because if I explain in detail, people would know, but I have felt like I was being ostracized by my coworkers twice. I can't go into too much detail because it would be too obvious.
He seems to have mental problems, and I can only deal with him as if I were touching something swollen, which is bothering other people. I am really sick because I am the one who has to deal with him the most in terms of position.