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10341. | 接点復活剤について(870view/3res) | Free talk | 2008/07/30 11:34 |
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10347. | 結婚生活の悩み。。。(6kview/34res) | Problem / Need advice | 2008/07/29 15:02 |
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10350. | 歯列矯正【裏側】(645view/1res) | Free talk | 2008/07/28 19:42 |
結婚生活の悩み。。。
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- TKR
- 2008/06/03 12:45
こんにちは。現在ある事で悩んでいます。
結婚してまだ1年少しなのですが、妻に対して肉体的な魅力を感じないのです。この悩みは結婚前にも多少ありましたが、外見的な魅力は結婚して何年もたてばいずれ消え失せると思い意識して”無視”していました。 結婚前は、週1回しか会えなかったのでその度にありましたが、結婚後まもなくセックスの回数も激減し彼女も私が肉体的な魅力を感じていないのではないかと感じているようです。 結婚した一番の理由は、彼女の性格と人柄です。 申し分なく、自分にはもったいないくらいのいい妻です。離婚は考えていません。これ以外にこれといった問題はないのですが、将来子供ができてその先を考える度に考えてしまいます。
自分には以前から肉体的な好みのタイプがあり、変えることはとても難しいと思います。なにかいいアドバイスあればどうぞよろしくおねがいします。
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- Chlo
- 2008/06/04 (Wed) 20:01
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ん〜・・奥さんかわいそう。
でも外見わかってたのに付き合えて結婚までしたんだから、奥さんのことそれだけ好きだったことだし。そこをもっとよく考えれば外見も愛せないのかな〜。。。
もし逆の立場だったらって考えて、奥さんを傷つけないように!
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- 足の親指
- 2008/06/04 (Wed) 22:35
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いろんな考えを持つ人がいるんだから、
あまり変に悩まないほうがいいんじゃないか?
それよりも、
今悩んでいること自体を、
素直に奥さんに打ち明けられる関係になれたら最高だと思うぜ。
まぁ、日本人って、世界一セックスの少ない国民らしいし、
しなくちゃいけないって訳でもないだろう。
まずは、奥さんが何を望んでるか、だな。
相手に遠慮して、お互いに勝手に推測してたらもったいないぜ。
肉体的な好みなんて、誰にだってあるダロ。
変えられるもんでもないし、変える必要もないと思うぜ。
まぁ、本人にストレートに話せたらこんなところで聞いたりしないだろうけど、
長い人生一緒に暮らしていくつもりだったら、
素直に話せる関係を目指していくのがいいんじゃねぇの?
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私は妻側ですがトピ主さん同じ立場です。
朝から晩まで働いてる夫に「エクササイズして!」とは言えず、本当にどうしたらいいんでしょうかね〜。
もちろん浮気する気はありません。
柴さん何か良い案ありません?
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奥さんの良い所を探してみてはいかがですか?
一緒に生活しているとマイナス面が目立ってくるものです
一日に1回奥さんの良い所を考える様にしたら愛しい気持ちが膨らんで来るのではないでしょうか?
- #11
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>>>>>自分には以前から肉体的な好みのタイプがあり
肉体的な好みの女も、将来全員おばあさん。
>>>>>彼女の性格と人柄です。
性格と人柄が一番大事。
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