Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

• 礼節
• 2023/08/14 (Mon) 20:51
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Even if I give you sound advice here on the information board, I get less than half of the replies I get.
This is just one example, but
"If it's good enough for me, it's good enough for you" will eventually lead to your own misfortune.

• ホント
• 2023/08/14 (Mon) 21:03
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#1076
It's true. That made me not want to give advice either.

• 思い込み
• 2023/08/14 (Mon) 21:21
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Even when I give appropriate advice on the information board, I get less than half the replies.
The person doesn't think it's appropriate ？
When I introduced him and told him about me in the past, he thanked me, but he only talked about himself and never mentioned my story. It was about animals. 、、、、、

• 礼節
• 2023/08/15 (Tue) 03:56
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#1078 Assumptions,
I knew there would always be comebacks like that.
The problem is that I think it's only natural to
thank people for taking the time to give advice （ whether it's appropriate or not ）.
#1077 As really says, fewer and fewer people are giving advice.
To take it to the extreme, it's like someone who doesn't say "thank you" after being asked for directions.
Or, people who think it doesn't matter because they don't even see the other person's face on the forum are worse.

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• 2023/08/15 (Tue) 05:44
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> I don't think the person in question thinks it's appropriate ？

No, it's not. I have exchanged many times and asked many questions.
I wouldn't ask a lot of questions if the information wasn't valid.
But I never heard from them again without thanking them.
I guess they don't need the information once they have it. I can tell if it's an assumption. Well, in my case. Before anyone else gets stuck, this is just an example. Then, I ask questions too, but I always reply politely. Even if it's not appropriate advice, even if it's a nasty message.