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334. Is not being able to sleep bad for you?（24kview/81res） Question 2022/10/20 23:02
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336. Come hike during the week in or near L A, L A 😄.（1kview/2res） Outdoor 2022/10/19 08:23
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338. Information Board.（8kview/89res） Question 2022/10/17 22:18
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End of life, separation

Free talk
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  • メリー
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  • 2022/10/14 10:21

I am in my 70s, but I hear that some people are already preparing for end-of-life planning in their 50s.

In my case, I created a Family Living Trust when I was in my 60s.

We are now considering purchasing a living grave.

One tricky thing is the separation.

This is the only thing that does not go smoothly. I guess it would be better if I just throw it away, but...

My husband has the can't-throw-it-away syndrome, which is compounded by me. The garage is so full of unimportant things that there is no room to step on

. We also have 5 fruit trees in the backyard that are not very big

and the trees are so tall that we have to cut them down on a ladder, but I'm afraid they will fall off the trees one day...

I would like to hear from people who are doing life-supporting activities and decluttering.

Thank you very much.

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beloved dog

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  • missing
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  • 2022/10/08 09:16

A year and a half ago
I lost my dog, who I loved like a 2 year old child, in an accident.
I spent every day feeling like I was in hell, that it was all the owner's fault and that it could happen to me.
Even now, that feeling comes back to me every day in a flash.
Finally, finally, I can write this story, but
I don't want to go into too much detail anymore, but
please reply if you feel exactly the same way as I do and can share 100%.
I have not been able to talk to any of my dog lover friends about this for a while now.
I was shocked more than when my parents passed away.
I suddenly feel that humans are emotional creatures and if I can share that with others, I would like to share it here with everyone.

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#5

Not a dog, but when I was in middle school, my kitten was pulled by a car right in front of me. I didn't see the moment, but a delivery man informed me that a cat was being pulled by a car ､ and that it wasn't one of my cats ？ ､ No way - it wasn't one of my cats ！ and I went to see if it was one of my cats ､ It hadn't been pulled for long and when I touched it, it was still warm and its body was in a state of instant death. I touched it, and it was warm and in a state of instant death.
I was in shock and cried and had a hard time everyday.
I don't want to feel like this anymore ､ so I can never keep an animal again.

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#6

He was only 2 years old, and I am sorry to hear that you lost him in a sudden accident, and I can only imagine your deep sorrow and regret.
I lost my beloved dog that I had at my parents' house in Japan this year due to old age. He lived long enough, but it is still hard to say goodbye, and I still wonder if I could have done more for him.

I am not ready to accept a new dog yet, but I am talking with my partner about adopting a puppy in the next year or so. I know it will be hard to say goodbye someday, but I knew I needed a companion animal in my life. Most of all, I don't think our deceased dogs would want us to be overwhelmed with grief and regret. When you are going through a difficult time, try to think, "She wouldn't have wanted me to be sad. It just inevitably takes time for the grief to heal ….

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  • 2022/10/09 (Sun) 00:38
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MISSING.
Thank you for the pros and cons of writing. I was struck by the comment from someone who lost a kitten in an accident. Really, if I were to adopt next time, that would be a great life change as well. I'm wondering if that day will come for me too. And I am sure that every day I feel sad, if my soul is connected to that too, I can't stay depressed for the child's sake.
Thank you very much.
I hope you will have another lovely family.

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I am looking for a place that will issue a negative certificate for me to go to Japan.

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  • AIKA
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  • 2022/09/28 20:35

South Bay （ Torrance, Gardena area ）

LAX area


Please let me know if there is any place that can issue a negative certificate.

Please let me know if there is a place that can issue a negative certificate using the testing method specified by the Japanese government.

I would appreciate a place that charges as little as possible.

Thank you very much.

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Is not being able to sleep bad for you?

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  • ねこ
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  • 2022/09/27 21:00

Cannot sleep even when mentally or physically tired.
I can't sleep even if I play relaxing music. I really can't sleep...
I don't know if I have a constitution that can handle short sleep, but not being able to sleep seems bad for me... I still want to sleep like a normal person. If anyone has any ideas to help me sleep, please let me know.

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#17
  • おっさん
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 08:35
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I also wear earplugs when I sleep,
sponge type, like disposable ones.

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#19
  • ねこ
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 16:53
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I have tried earplugs and eye masks... (weeping)

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#21
  • おっさん
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 18:59
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No earplugs?
I'm not a good sleeper either, so I have 3 pillows of different heights, hardness and thickness
If I can't fall asleep within 10 minutes of getting into my futon, I try changing pillows
Mainly I use a hard buckwheat hull pillow and AKI HOME （ Nitori ） which is good for sleeping on my side
Recently, hotels in Japan have various kinds of pillows to rent.

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#22
  • 因みに
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 20:02
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Insomnia, it's hard, isn't it?
Sometimes I feel like
paying whatever it takes to get to sleep.
Melatonin didn't work for me,
I could sleep, but I couldn't sleep through the day.

I paid $ 100
over for a pillow back then and
managed to get back to sleep.

relax without too much pressure
and
sleep on the couch if you want
maybe it's time to be carefree

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#23
  • 戦地の前線部隊
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 23:15
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It's hard to have different rhythms of life.

I have a trick to get to sleep anytime anywhere in the U.S. Navy, where the rhythm of life is so varied in a war zone.
The method is to lie down and relax from the top of the head, separated by body parts and moving in turn toward the legs.
The first step is to relax your forehead.
Next, relax your eyebrows and eyes, then your ears, cheeks, nose, lips, chin, and neck, and before you know it, you are asleep.

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I want to move into an elementary school in May for an assignment … please tell me ！

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  • YanayanaPenguin
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  • 2022/10/20 16:10

I would like to be able to transfer in May, even though it is the end of the school year, in order to let them get used to the environment as much as possible, but as far as I can tell from the school's website, it seems like I can't accept the application because it is past the application period, or I can … I don't really understand. Should most schools apply for the new school year?

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Come hike during the week in or near L A, L A 😄.

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  • わんぱくYoshi
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  • 2022/10/18 17:05

This time we will be going to
Switzer Falls.
Cost: Free
Contact: tomisan39@gmail.com.

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Cruise Parking

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#1
  • mm
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  • 2022/10/15 21:22

I am asking
I will be taking a 7 night cruise from the port of San Diego. What parking spaces do you recommend? Please also give reasons for your recommendation.

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Information Board.

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#1
  • みさ
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  • 2022/10/10 22:10

On the information board, there is something that bothers me.
Aren't there a lot of people who write very detailed information about what they want and what precautions they need to take, but don't write anything about the top or how much they will be paid?
It's okay if they let you know after the first or second email, but I feel uncomfortable with those who don't tell us until we ask.

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#22
  • 通りすがりの名無し
  • 2022/10/12 (Wed) 17:10
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My personal opinion about Topy's post is that

as for the superior attitude, "go ahead". I'm sure some people will bite on that and others will snicker at it.

As for not mentioning the amount of compensation, you might want to add a sentence to the posting, such as, "Details about the amount of compensation will be provided in the first e-mail from us." It would be good to add a sentence like this. The user may want to eliminate as much ambiguity as possible before making a request.

I think that the reason for this is that they are looking at the other person's feet and thinking "I'm looking up to you".

Again, the above is just my personal opinion.

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#23
  • 時給
  • 2022/10/12 (Wed) 22:47
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There will be a minimum hourly wage.

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#25
  • 真
  • 2022/10/13 (Thu) 00:50
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It's normal to care about your hourly rate
If you don't care, then volunteer.

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#29
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/10/13 (Thu) 10:56
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The DMV will send you a letter when it is time to renew
You can read what information is in that letter and act on it.

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#30
  • おっさん
  • 2022/10/13 (Thu) 12:01
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it's a corona countermeasure, look it up first before you write it down, you Showa,
read it carefully

https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/news-and-media/countdown-californians-age-70-can-renew-drivers-licensesonline-for-five-more-months/

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Japanese care company response

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#1
  • 呼子
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  • 2022/10/15 00:59

It has been almost a year since I requested services for my mother, who lives alone, from a Japanese caregiver company called H Service.
I am no longer convinced that the cost of the service is worth the several thousand dollars per month that the office charges (frequent subs ） and the care giver's work (my mother says he is always looking at his cell phone, is late, etc.).
I am thinking of looking for a private care giver instead of going through a company, but I would appreciate your advice on the advantages and disadvantages of getting services from a company or from a private care giver.

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#2
  • M
  • 2022/10/15 (Sat) 07:59
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The k care company is very responsive in their office and their care givers are well trained, so why don't you contact them?

My mother was well taken care of.

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  • ケア
  • 2022/10/15 (Sat) 08:47
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M Services also has a poor internal situation, but overall the care givers are rather decent.
I'm not sure about hiring privately, because of the problems with workman's comp and other issues that come up. I hope the hourly rate is high.

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Car lease payment suddenly changed.

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  • リースマン
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  • 2022/10/16 09:48

I have a 3 year lease, almost 2 years now, and I was informed after the fact that my
monthly payment has changed because the tax slate has changed.

I don't think it is possible to change the monthly payment after getting a loan from a bank, but
is it possible for car leasing ？

Anyone who knows how leasing works, please tell me.

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