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331. End of life, separation(4kview/38res) Free talk 2022/10/26 15:02
332. beloved dog(9kview/81res) Pet / Animal 2022/10/25 10:25
333. I am looking for a place that will issue a negativ...(9kview/8res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/21 02:02
334. Is not being able to sleep bad for you?(24kview/81res) Question 2022/10/20 23:02
335. I want to move into an elementary school in May fo...(971view/0res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/20 16:10
336. Come hike during the week in or near L A, L A 😄.(1kview/2res) Outdoor 2022/10/19 08:23
337. Cruise Parking(1kview/3res) Question 2022/10/18 10:20
338. Information Board.(8kview/89res) Question 2022/10/17 22:18
339. Japanese care company response(16kview/48res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/17 20:26
340. Car lease payment suddenly changed.(2kview/11res) Question 2022/10/17 08:09
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End of life, separation

Free talk
#1
  • メリー
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  • 2022/10/14 10:21

I am in my 70s, but I hear that some people are already preparing for end-of-life planning in their 50s.

In my case, I created a Family Living Trust when I was in my 60s.

We are now considering purchasing a living grave.

One tricky thing is the separation.

This is the only thing that does not go smoothly. I guess it would be better if I just throw it away, but...

My husband has the can't-throw-it-away syndrome, which is compounded by me. The garage is so full of unimportant things that there is no room to step on

. We also have 5 fruit trees in the backyard that are not very big

and the trees are so tall that we have to cut them down on a ladder, but I'm afraid they will fall off the trees one day...

I would like to hear from people who are doing life-supporting activities and decluttering.

Thank you very much.

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beloved dog

Pet / Animal
#1
  • missing
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  • 2022/10/08 09:16

A year and a half ago
I lost my dog, who I loved like a 2 year old child, in an accident.
I spent every day feeling like I was in hell, that it was all the owner's fault and that it could happen to me.
Even now, that feeling comes back to me every day in a flash.
Finally, finally, I can write this story, but
I don't want to go into too much detail anymore, but
please reply if you feel exactly the same way as I do and can share 100%.
I have not been able to talk to any of my dog lover friends about this for a while now.
I was shocked more than when my parents passed away.
I suddenly feel that humans are emotional creatures and if I can share that with others, I would like to share it here with everyone.

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I am looking for a place that will issue a negative certificate for me to go to Japan.

Problem / Need advice
#1
  • AIKA
  • mail
  • 2022/09/28 20:35

South Bay ( Torrance, Gardena area )

LAX area


Please let me know if there is any place that can issue a negative certificate.

Please let me know if there is a place that can issue a negative certificate using the testing method specified by the Japanese government.

I would appreciate a place that charges as little as possible.

Thank you very much.

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Is not being able to sleep bad for you?

Question
#1
  • ねこ
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  • 2022/09/27 21:00

Cannot sleep even when mentally or physically tired.
I can't sleep even if I play relaxing music. I really can't sleep...
I don't know if I have a constitution that can handle short sleep, but not being able to sleep seems bad for me... I still want to sleep like a normal person. If anyone has any ideas to help me sleep, please let me know.

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#2
  • pooske
  • 2022/09/27 (Tue) 21:56
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Consult a specialist.

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#3
  • 眠れないのは辛いですね
  • 2022/09/28 (Wed) 01:16
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It's called insomnia.
Do you wake up properly in the morning and go to bed at night? ?
I think it might be due to some anxiety or mental stress. I had a period like that and even now I sometimes have trouble sleeping. I once took a cold medicine that made me sleepy even though I didn't have a cold. I was able to sleep then 、 I stopped taking cold medicine once because it was dangerous to take cold medicine everyday to sleep when I wasn't sick, but I was afraid to use sleeping pills, so I consulted a doctor and he diagnosed me with an anxiety disorder and prescribed me antidepressants, which I took for six months and I stopped feeling anxious and was able to sleep comfortably everyday. I hope that once you see a psychosomatic doctor, you will be able to sleep in an appropriate way. There are many possible causes, such as sleep apnea. By the way, I have heard that it is easier to sleep if you cool your body. Try sleeping with an ice pillow or something to cool your head ? It is not good to use the phone before going to bed.

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I want to move into an elementary school in May for an assignment … please tell me !

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#1
  • YanayanaPenguin
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  • 2022/10/20 16:10

I would like to be able to transfer in May, even though it is the end of the school year, in order to let them get used to the environment as much as possible, but as far as I can tell from the school's website, it seems like I can't accept the application because it is past the application period, or I can … I don't really understand. Should most schools apply for the new school year?

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Come hike during the week in or near L A, L A 😄.

Outdoor
#1
  • わんぱくYoshi
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  • 2022/10/18 17:05

This time we will be going to
Switzer Falls.
Cost: Free
Contact: tomisan39@gmail.com.

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Cruise Parking

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#1
  • mm
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  • 2022/10/15 21:22

I am asking
I will be taking a 7 night cruise from the port of San Diego. What parking spaces do you recommend? Please also give reasons for your recommendation.

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Information Board.

Question
#1
  • みさ
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  • 2022/10/10 22:10

On the information board, there is something that bothers me.
Aren't there a lot of people who write very detailed information about what they want and what precautions they need to take, but don't write anything about the top or how much they will be paid?
It's okay if they let you know after the first or second email, but I feel uncomfortable with those who don't tell us until we ask.

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#3
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/10/11 (Tue) 06:54
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The reason you don't state the amount of compensation is probably because you are informing the person who contacted you directly.

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#5
  • お化け
  • 2022/10/11 (Tue) 08:12
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The idea is that they're letting you know directly = as long as they call you anyway
they can handle it, well, they know and they're doing it.
As the Lord says, some people don't let you know how much they're paying you right away.
They are too cheap, too embarrassed to write the amount of reward, too desperate to take care of themselves.
If you are going to ask someone for something, you should at least write the reward.

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Japanese care company response

Problem / Need advice
#1
  • 呼子
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  • 2022/10/15 00:59

It has been almost a year since I requested services for my mother, who lives alone, from a Japanese caregiver company called H Service.
I am no longer convinced that the cost of the service is worth the several thousand dollars per month that the office charges (frequent subs ) and the care giver's work (my mother says he is always looking at his cell phone, is late, etc.).
I am thinking of looking for a private care giver instead of going through a company, but I would appreciate your advice on the advantages and disadvantages of getting services from a company or from a private care giver.

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Car lease payment suddenly changed.

Question
#1
  • リースマン
  • mail
  • 2022/10/16 09:48

I have a 3 year lease, almost 2 years now, and I was informed after the fact that my
monthly payment has changed because the tax slate has changed.

I don't think it is possible to change the monthly payment after getting a loan from a bank, but
is it possible for car leasing ?

Anyone who knows how leasing works, please tell me.

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