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Recovering from a broken heart caused by cheating

#1
ami
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2022/07/13 12:30

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A year ago, a man I had been long-distance with for 5 years dumped me
saying he had found someone he liked.

After that, I was shocked and dragged it out for about 6 months, but
I managed to recover and live a normal life now.
The other day I received an e-mail from that person after a long time
I am really sorry. I finally realized how much you mean to me.
I'm sorry to be so selfish, but can we try again?

This was the content.

I told him that I didn't hate him anymore and that I needed to think about it a little.
I am also worried that once I am in a relationship with a man that I like, it will be the same in the future.

If anyone has had a similar experience
should I get back together or not please advise me.
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#2
なごみ
2022/07/13 (Wed) 13:15

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あなたが素直に書かれている

>一度、交際中に好きな人ができた男性なので今後も同じことがあるのではないか、と不安な気持ちもあります。

の部分を彼にしっかり伝えるべきかなと思います。

ただ、5年間遠距離だったということですが、その間に何回会えましたか?
顔を会わせるだけが恋愛ではありませんが、会えないというのは少しずつ2人の関係にダメージを与えて行きます。

復縁を申し出ているのは、その彼が好きになった人と上手くいかなくなったからだと考えることも出来ますよね。
復縁が良いか悪いかはケースバイケースですので、改めて自分自身に聞いてみましょう。
流されて復縁ではなく「私自身が復縁したいんだ！」と思えるなら、復縁は有りと思います。
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#3
ん？
2022/07/13 (Wed) 15:56

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前に男側から書き込みなかった？

顔がタイプの人に会って彼女を振ったけど、新しい彼女は一切金を払わない傲慢な人で嫌気がさしたとか言う。

しかしね、男性がよりを戻したいってよくある話。
私なら断る。
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#5
ないな
2022/07/13 (Wed) 23:02

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男が元カノに連絡するのは1番簡単に落とせる相手だから

自分が振った女はいつまでも自分を好きだと勘違いする
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#7
それ
2022/07/14 (Thu) 06:58

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やりたいだけ
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#9
それ
2022/07/14 (Thu) 08:11

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↑何があっても離れない女は都合がいい女
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