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• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 12:01
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＃ I have an acquaintance who is a stay-at-home mom and hates her husband.

Does it bother you because he is an acquaintance?

＃ If she got a job and became independent, she would have more possibilities for divorce.
＃ Almost all the wives married to American men are working around me.
if you tell anyone you know.

• troll
• mail
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 23:55
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I used to think that way too. I used to think that being a housewife in America was a bunch of useless people.
However, I became seriously ill and was unable to work, so now I am a full-time housewife. Everyone has their own circumstances, so I think it was shallow of me, based on my past self-warnings, to judge people based on the assumption that they are full-time housewives.

• ワクチン義務化
• 2022/11/03 (Thu) 09:29
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My grandpa used to say that the reason we worry about others is because we lack confidence in ourselves
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• 平成のおにぃやん
• 2022/11/03 (Thu) 20:42
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That's what I'm talking about …

• 真知子
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 02:09
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？
Japanese people here may be housewives, but all American women work. American men also do their own things, so they don't have to depend on their wives, so their wives can work. I wonder if there are American women who stay at home all day long, cooking and waiting for their husbands to come home. ？ ？ A Japanese woman I know is a full-time housewife, but she is married to an American man and is annoyed at me because I am unmarried and support myself because I don't have to work for akusek for my own living, like she is proud of her victory. I'm annoyed.　When I told her that I can't afford to buy such expensive food, she said, "It's not expensive, you can buy this kind of food as much as you want. ！ You don't have a penny because you don't work ！ ！ How can you say that when you are so stingy?　You can only be a housewife, but you should work and earn your own money!

• 底辺
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 12:13
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That's no wonder they're losing users.

• 真知子さん
• 2022/11/05 (Sat) 19:10
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One vote
I know a wife married to a rich man, she spends all the money she can, even though it's not what she can earn herself
Husband bad-mouthing his wife everywhere. Divorce is coming soon.

• ラーメン
• 2022/11/05 (Sat) 20:00
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↑ That doesn't mean the children of stay-at-home moms ＝ aren't excellent.
Around my family, married couples are in balanced positions.
I've never seen an American who is a housewife.

• だから
• 2022/11/05 (Sat) 20:06
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So your ex-lawyer's wife is a stay-at-home mom. I know a lot of people return to work when the kids are out of the picture. Americans usually work together and at a similar level. Asians are different.
Some men raise their children because their wives have rich parents who bought them a house or because they are full-time husbands and don't have jobs.

• 真知子
• 2022/11/06 (Sun) 00:59
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A full-time housewife is a uniquely Japanese thing.
I don't understand why Japanese men get married in order to have their husbands do the housework, laundry, and prepare meals ？ ？ ？
Furthermore, I don't understand why a wife gives her husband an allowance after he has worked so hard and left all the money he earned to his wife.　It's not acceptable in America. If I got married to an American man like that, I would get divorced immediately.

• キャリアウーマン
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 02:05
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Of course, the wife works so she can eat with what she earns, and the husband doesn't have to wonder who he owes his livelihood to.

• ゴン子
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 09:53
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I see quite a few white housewives.
Young couples without children probably work together, though. If you have small children, it is the same for both Caucasians and Japanese to stay at home and not work. It is probably women who earn a good income who leave their children at babysitters or daycare centers.
I was asked once to pick up🛻 at an elementary school and was surprised.
I was surprised when I was asked to pick up a child at an elementary school. There was a long line of cars waiting for the parents who came to pick up their children. In other words, the housewives stay at home, which is probably the same in the U.S.A.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 12:04
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Which small city do I live in?

• 笑笑
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 12:31
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I don't know any Americans who don't have a full-time housewife … You're a bunch of poor people ？ You're usually here. It's just a bunch of people who don't have money around them. There are many families where you don't have to work.

There are Japanese and American families where the wife has a career and works.

• はるか
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 12:51
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In the U.S., women don't have many housewives because many of them are very proud. Even if they stay at home, they babysit, teach something at home, or ､ do some work at home. It is unique to the Japanese to have the husband earn money and devote himself to the family. I think the number of full-time housewives is decreasing in Japan nowadays.

• メルモ
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 13:04
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I know a lot of people are concerned about other people.
There are people who look down on housewives and take a tack on them, but it's not like they're being fed by those people, so why ？
If your family was on fire, you wouldn't be a housewife, so why is it okay ！
I don't think happy people care. People are people and you are you ？.

• お金持ちの主婦
• 2022/11/07 (Mon) 15:29
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Excuse me for being a little off-topic.

My children attend a Bel Air elementary school （ just over 70% white, 80% ） when combined with a mix of whites, but 80% ～ 90% of the mothers in the class are housewives. The school is small, with a small class size, but those who work there are lawyers, doctors, story writers for a TV station, models, actresses, and others who own their own companies, and nannies take them to and from school. But I can see their motherly faces when they enthusiastically participate in school events. As a side note, most of the nannies drive BMWs. One of the nannies I spoke to told me that it is common around here for nannies to be given BMWs. They don't want their children to be picked up and dropped off in cheap cars.

When it came time to decide who the class mothers would be, the housewives raised their hands in unison. I thought they didn't want to be class mothers because it was too much trouble, but there were many who wanted to be class mothers, and as a result, eight people became class mothers. They work so hard for the school and for the class that their efforts are beyond the scope of volunteer work ？. They are also in charge of the end-of-year fund-raising and bazaar. The bazaar is filled with eye-popping luxury items 。。。。 At the fund raiser to sell Christmas wrapping paper, the top 20 winners are posted in the hallway. 、、、、1 was $4,000, which was surprising. I was surprised to see that the first place winner was $4,000, which was apparently purchased by her husband's company. As an aside 2, there are various perks depending on sales, such as a dinner with the principal or a fixed location for a year in the parking lot closest to the school for access.

Because of the location of Bel Air, no one has to work for a living, and everyone is clean from head to toe. She said, "If I'm sloppy, my husband can leave me for any number of younger, prettier wives." She said that there are rich housewives. Not many of the mothers work, but all of them are very successful career people. Of course, the husbands are rich enough that their wives don't have to work, but they want to.

Children of stay-at-home moms ＝ Not very good This depends on the person. The children of stay-at-home moms who are devoted to their children's studies are excellent.　And many rich people's children are excellent.

• はるか
• 2022/11/08 (Tue) 00:20
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You have a lot of misconceptions that you don't understand
You think women work because their families are struggling for money ？
You think they work because their husbands don't make enough to get by ？ You think women work because they want to go out and do things ､ even if their husbands are rich. If they don't have that, they can stay home and be a housewife.　If they don't have that, they can stay at home and be a housewife.　In America, women are strong ､ so even if they are divorced, they can make a living by themselves even if they don't give their all to men.　　　Many Japanese women can't make it if their husbands get divorced, so they do well by trying to get into their husbands' good moods.　I have an acquaintance.　The husband wants to leave her, but the wife can't work on her own anymore, so she will never divorce him.
They put up with each other and live with each other.

• 自分はどれかな
• 2022/11/08 (Tue) 01:29
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Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Wife is also a careerist and works
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works because the family finances are on fire
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Husband is a full-time housewife because he makes good money
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife wants to work but cannot speak English

American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works as a career woman
American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works because the family budget is on fire
American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife is a full-time housewife because her husband makes good money

American Husband X American Wife Wife also works in a career group
American Husband X American Wife Wife also works because the family finances are on fire
American Husband X American Wife Husband makes a lot of money so she is a housewife

• 同感
• 2022/11/08 (Tue) 02:09
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＃ 45

＞ If your family is on fire, you can't be a housewife ！
I agree with this sentence ！

＞ I don't think happy people care, but people are people and I am me ？
You are right ！

There are people who work and housewives in various situations, so I can't say it this way. But I think it can't be helped that the situation you are in changes what you say.
If I may express a wish, it would be easier if you are in a relationship with people who are in the same situation as much as possible, because their values are not so different. ？ People who work because their families are on fire and people who are full-time housewives because their husbands make a lot of money can see differences in each other in everyday conversations （ I think it is important for both sides to ） And you may feel that 。。。。
But you know, there is no such thing as a group of people in the same situation, so I think we should just think of people as people and ourselves as ourselves. I mean, that's all you can do.

• つーか
• 2022/11/08 (Tue) 05:09
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It's more unusual to be an elementary school teacher with a high school education.

• で
• 2022/11/08 (Tue) 21:06
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Topi's question: 、、、、 no one has answered the men's question: 、、、、

＞ Do Japanese men want their wives to stay at home ？

Anyone brave enough to answer ～ ～ ～ www

• 康夫
• 2022/11/09 (Wed) 00:29
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I'm not married yet, but I want my wife to work and do what she loves.　I'm tired of being at home all day every day, making dinner and waiting for her.　I don't like it when she comes home late, and I don't like it when she complains. Someone who has a hobby or skill that I can get into ､ It has to be someone who has a sense of self.　I can't have someone who calls me at work every time and asks where I am ､ I can't have someone who is picky about details.　I can't have a woman who stays at home without makeup, with shaggy hair and holding a vacuum cleaner.　I want someone who is always clean and always young and energetic... ？ Anyone?

• パッション
• 2022/11/09 (Wed) 07:23
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If I had money, I wouldn't work ？

I heard that Eron Musk is sleeping on the floor in his office after the Twitter acquisition.

• そう？
• 2022/11/09 (Wed) 12:39
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I don't work because I have money ＝ I don't do nothing
If I don't have to work and my life is stable, I put 100% effort into housework and childcare, which is a great job.
If I had the choice to be a man and just work and put in my paycheck and they would do everything else
I would choose that without hesitation.

① I would only work
② I would work and be a housewife
③ I would be a full-time housewife

I tried them all, but ② ③ ① in that order, it was harder.
Because Japanese husbands don't do anything ～ ～ ～ about the house ～ ～ ～.

• ゴリオとゴリ子
• 2022/11/10 (Thu) 00:30
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？
Who do you think you owe to to whom you can go to work and earn money ！ ！
It's because I take care of you ！
I'd be scared if there was a woman who could not take care of herself
Why can't Japanese men do their own things? ？
why can't they at least do their own cleaning, laundry, and cooking?

• 人それぞれですね
• 2022/11/10 (Thu) 10:57
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Since I was young, I started my own business, earned money, and increased my wealth while investing. I wanted to have a family, so I had a child and thought it would be good to be a full-time housewife since I had wealth, so I saved my work, but I felt that only raising children and doing housework was not enough, so I hired a nanny and went back to work. I feel that this is the best fit for me because I am fulfilled with my work, childcare, and private life. I don't need to compare myself with others as long as it suits me.