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Cancellation without notice

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#1
  • 残念
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  • 2023/01/05 19:07

It's been a while since I've met something like a cold one.
After making dinner plans from looking for companionship and confirming the meeting time about an hour ago, I never received a reply, and
sure enough, no one showed up at the meeting place.
This used to happen sometimes with matching apps, but I guess there are people who do that here too.

Is there another way to say this kind of no contact and no show up at the meeting ？
In English, I think it is similar to go-starting substitute, but please let me know if there is any.
If you don't have any, let's make one.

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#3
  • ネカマ
  • 2023/01/05 (Thu) 21:24
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There's the occasional nekkid looking for a mate.
I don't know if it's the same guy or not, but some of them are asking around about people they've met here. I guess some creepy guy is sabotaging other people's encounters because he's angry about being dumped.

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#4
  • うわわ
  • 2023/01/05 (Thu) 22:33
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This kind of topicality is something that turns me off.

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#5
  • U
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 01:03
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？ ？ ？
He is very defensive.

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#6

I don't care if you are a stranger, I had a friend do something similar to that to me. We had agreed to meet up over the phone and go there after work, but no matter how long I waited and waited, he never showed up.
My friend worked in a restaurant, so I thought maybe she was busy, so I waited and waited for an hour, then I called her and she said she couldn't make it.　！
You should have called me earlier ！ After that, he sometimes didn't show up for meetings, and he was always loose and sloppy.　
He's full of lies. He always cancels events and stuff when I try to go to them. He never tells me he can't go until I ask him.

Sometimes when we have tea, she just complains and when she's done with herself ､ she says she's going home and leaves quickly.

Lately, when he asks me to go out for dinner, I just say ､ yes, yes ､ and get it over with.

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#7
  • とっぽ
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 02:01
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I never want to meet the opposite sex in search of companionship. The content of the posts was weird and I got goosebumps when I found out that the husband of an acquaintance of mine had also written to meet a woman. I don't know what kind of person the Lord is, but I still thought it was weird that he would take root and even make up words.

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#8
  • 満月
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 08:04
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In English, that kind of thing is called flake on, like she flaked on me. I can understand why you would be angry if someone cancelled on you with no notice.
But there are often cases where people actually meet and get murdered or have their money stolen or keep in touch with a shitty person for a long time or even get married and get deeply hurt, so let's be positive that it was better than that ！.

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#9
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 10:13
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7 I just wanted to know if there is a naming or a good word for it because it is rooted in the past or something that happens often. Objectively speaking, it's certainly creepy. It's dangerous for women, and maybe it's better not to meet with them.

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#10
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 10:17
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8 Flake on! This is the first time I heard of it, thank you.
I'm still young, so I'll try my best to make it an experience.

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#11
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 10:33
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3 I met a gay guy and found out he was the same sex as me. It would be interesting if it was the same sex.

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#12
  • 変態ニキ
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 10:44
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Perverts of the world, never give up.
I've had a few good times.

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#13
  • 満月
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 17:29
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I'm sure you've met a lot of people before," he says, "but it used to happen sometimes on matching apps. If you meet a lot of people just to play games, you are more likely to get cancelled or put yourself in danger. As I said before, it's nothing to worry about being cancelled.
I recently heard about an Asian man who just graduated from California State University who went to Colombia with his friends to see the sights, met a woman on tinder, got $500, and was killed. A lot of guys meet up like it's a game, so women are cautious and scared when it comes time to meet up.

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#14
  • 闇夜
  • 2023/01/06 (Fri) 18:34
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You can't start off with a meal
You shouldn't start off with Starbucks or 85c or something so you don't have to worry about being f*cked
By the way, The guy f*cking flaky me

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#15
  • ね。
  • 2023/01/07 (Sat) 16:58
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I feel sorry for that other person, too. They're living a pitiful life. You must feel sorry for him, that he enjoys doing that. I'm sorry, I forgive you.

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#16
  • ゆみ
  • 2023/01/07 (Sat) 18:35
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I used to have private sales where no one would show up even though they were promised on the day of the sale. Maybe the same person?
Really annoying.

Don't expect to find your friends too much.

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#17
  • いやでも
  • 2023/01/07 (Sat) 19:20
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You don't just meet someone when you hear from him or her. You meet someone after exchanging e-mails and getting a feel for them, and then you decide to meet them.
I've never failed to meet someone, and I've had many good encounters.
I really appreciate you Vivi.

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#18
  • ユ
  • 2023/01/07 (Sat) 22:59
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I was once cancelled.
He was a guy in his 40s who claimed to be in aviation.
And the place where we met was closed.

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#19

I was in a private sale about 7 years ago
selling a brand new bag
and met him at a table in a Japanese supermarket.
He didn't show up at the time and called me. He called me and said "I'm in Costa Mesa"
I'm meeting him in Torrance 🙄 In short "can you come over here ？"
I wanted to say "screw you ！" but I resisted and said no softly. 2 days later I got another message from the guy saying "I don't think I can do it.
He said he wanted to give it as a gift to a young girl and that he was going to a neighboring country soon and wanted me to buy it before then. Of course I ignored him.
I'm glad that I was able to deal with a normal, sane person for the bag after that.

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#21
  • ちまき
  • 2023/01/08 (Sun) 18:01
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You can't mix up private trading and finding friends with the same person ？. The purpose of the board is completely different. I understand why you are angry, because I have been stood up in private sales myself. But you need to be calm.

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#22
  • キマチ
  • 2023/01/08 (Sun) 18:50
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I'd hate to think there are that many people in
LA who don't contact me until the last minute.

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#23
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  • 2023/01/08 (Sun) 21:15
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> I don't care if it was a stranger, my friend did something similar to that to me. We had agreed to meet up over the phone and go there after work, but no matter how long I waited and waited, he never showed up.
My friend worked in a restaurant, so I thought she might be busy, so I waited and waited for an hour, then I called her and she said she couldn't make it.　！
You should have called me earlier ！ After that, he sometimes didn't show up for the meeting several times.　
He always cancels events and stuff like that when I try to go. He never tells me he can't go until I ask him.

> Sometimes when we have tea, she just complains and when she's satisfied, she says ､ I'm going home then and leaves quickly.

>Lately, when they ask me to go out for dinner, I just say ､ yes, yes ､.


You have to choose your friends.

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#24

I have never met anyone here that I would trust.　There are many strange people.
Self-centered, selfish, liars, putting themselves on the back burner, intense
They are always fretting about every little thing, and are a pain in the ass.

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#25
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん。
  • 2023/01/09 (Mon) 12:20
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You've been together for quite a long time, after all
I guess you don't have any friends either, so it can't be helped.

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#26
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん。。
  • 2023/01/09 (Mon) 15:31
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Why don't you stay with us for a long time ？
Showa Otouta. Chobeliver.

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#27
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/11 (Wed) 15:01
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This time I let my partner suggest a meal, but surely a café would be better at first
Thank you!

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#28
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/11 (Wed) 15:15
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It looks like there are many bad aspects, but there are also good encounters.

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#29
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/11 (Wed) 15:20
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I agree that many of the people who come over here are unique.
But sometimes there are decent people.
Sometimes.

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#30
  • 残念
  • 2023/01/11 (Wed) 15:26
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If you're having fun, that's fine. I also get stuff from the board, so this is rather interesting.

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