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Is it still just my small vessel ？?

#1
monicasanta
2023/08/17 21:07

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I would like to discuss child rearing.
Please especially those who have experienced international marriage and stepchild marriage.

I am a Japanese 35 year old man. My wife is an American 35 years old and a housewife.
We have four children, ages 10, 8, 5, and 2 from the top.

The two older children are the children of my wife and her ex-husband.
The ex-husband pays child support payments of $250 per person per month for a total of $500.
They have had chronic illnesses from the beginning that required hospital visits, but the ex-husband only pays $500 per month in child support.
Currently, they rarely see each other due to ex-husband's availability.

I have been with my older two since they were 4 and 2
I am proud to say that I have treated them as if they were my own.

In this day and age, especially in the US,
it is better to respect the biological father after a divorce and
treat the remarried father as a stepfather only.
My wife tells me "you are a stepfather" every time I have a conflict in parenting.

I am mortified every time.
It's been over 5 years now.
The oldest child has also been remarried longer.

Is it still just my small capacity ？?
Problem / Need advice
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#32
昭和のおとっつぁん
2023/08/21 (Mon) 17:35

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何らかの個人的な危機　　　子供や家族の福祉について　　病気になっているか　　 障害がある

困難な状況にある場合は、ソーシャルワーカーがお手伝いしてくれます。
ソーシャル ワーカーと話すように依頼することで、ソーシャル ワーカーに連絡できます。
通訳が必要な場合はお知らせください。通訳を手配いたします。
多言語電話サービス に電話することもできます。
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#33
平成のおにぃやん
2023/08/21 (Mon) 19:13

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#30

こことは真逆ですよ。
ここは長年不法滞在の後
恩赦で永住権。
流れで市民権。
日本に帰るに帰れない老害の
溜まり場です。
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#34
アメリカ20年
2023/08/21 (Mon) 20:27

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日本から来たばかりの人とは会話が成り立たない
アメリカが長いので感覚も合わない
けど便利だからとやたらと利用してくる

関わらないのが身のため
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#35
嫌な予感
2023/08/21 (Mon) 23:05

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トピ主出てきませんね
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#36
昭和のおとっつぁん
2023/08/22 (Tue) 08:04

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恩赦で永住権を貰えるのはどれくらいの時間が必要だろうね。

1年や2年で恩赦の対象になるなら良いが。
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