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Nikkei Kindergarten

Problem / Need advice
#1
  • Cat
  • mail
  • 2021/07/23 13:02

We are senior moms and dads and look forward to your kind-hearted comments.

My daughter started summer school at Nikkei this summer.
She is 3 years old and this is her first time in kindergarten and she is very naughty, so on the first day she had to leave the classroom.
She looked very stressed about it and the teacher nailed me and told me to be sure to tell her at home. I know it was hard, but it was said in the same way as the first and second days. \I know she is tired and I know she is bothering my daughter 😞
but I am depressed because I wonder if this teacher will be okay and I am worried about sending my daughter there in the future.
I don't think she is a bad teacher, but when I go to pick her up, all she says is negative things again, that she is bothering my daughter, and that she is trying her best to teach her things at home, but it's not going well.
My father speaks English at home, so I usually do my best to teach her Japanese, but she still seems to have more difficulty communicating with me than with other children who speak only one language.

The teacher seems mature and very kind, but she says, "It was like this, so let's work together to get used to it while getting support at home again!" I am worried because it is not a positive feeling like that.
I felt so much annoyance that I couldn't stop crying after returning home. I'm worried about my daughter, who is just a rambunctious little thing, going to kindergarten, and I'm skeptical about leaving it in the hands of the teachers.
I heard that this kindergarten has had many problems, but my friends' children go there, and it didn't seem so bad when we visited, so it's even worse.
I know this sounds like I'm still a newbie, but have any of you had this experience?

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#59
  • トントントン
  • 2021/07/29 (Thu) 18:30
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Not everyone in the park is a professional.
Some places hire 19 year old amateurs.

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#60
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  • 2021/07/29 (Thu) 18:34
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I'm not saying that
everyone gets along
the same way, but

I ( think ) my child
is different from others, and
I don't think
that is synonymous with developing talent.

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#63

From a child's perspective, they are learning rules and social skills as they enter group life and go to kindergarten. Especially if your child is at an age where he/she is not allowed to do many things, or if it is the first time for him/her to attend kindergarten, there are many more rules for him/her than at home.
Even so, they are super adaptable and will get used to it.
They learn the joy of making friends and comparing themselves.
They are also learning what they do and don't do around them. I have also worked in childcare and am the mother of a magical 2 and 3 year old. I cared for many, many rambunctious children.
Sometimes I had to tell the parents, even though it was painful, and it was also part of my job to tell them what they had "done" and what they "did" beyond our expectations. Please do not be happy or sad, but walk with your child as if he/she is learning the hardships and difficulties of society in a group environment. Also, as the mother of a child, I would say to the preschool teachers, "I'm sorry, it must be hard for you, my child. I try to be nice and have the attitude to say, "I'm sorry, I know it's hard on you, my child. I am a parent who thinks that the teacher may have an influence on my child.
Should I do something? I do say what I have to say, but I try to be nice. By the way, my kids go to American Preschool. I always give information to the teachers about the newest program, Teribo 2, etc.
So, I have to tell them about the newest program. So, if you are the one who is the topic of this article, please tell your child that you tried to work on this yesterday at dinner, and also tell the preschool teachers that you know it's a lot of work and that you would appreciate their help. The child will surely grow up with super adaptability, and it will be hard for both the child and the parents to get used to it, so please cheer up, just as if it were one of the many difficulties of child-rearing ! I apologize for the last words, but I am afraid I am being rude.
I do not recommend you to go to a kindergarten. The principal is not good, and the disrepute is circulating even in the American School.

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#64
  • うちも
  • 2021/08/03 (Tue) 08:39
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We are not particularly problematic children, but we still nudge the teachers on a regular basis. We also consult with them. I ask them, "I am like this at home, but how is it at the school ?? When I was a little girl, I heard that she used to leave her seat while eating, so I tried to have an attitude that says, "I'm sorry for bothering you, and I hope you will continue to take good care of me.

I think that even though I am paying them, they are doing most of the childcare during the day, which is the role of parents. If you know you have enrolled your child in a preschool that has problems, you can transfer. If you chose that preschool just because your friend was there, I don't think you need to put your child in an environment that is not positive for you and your child, even more so if you feel bad about it.

I have never had a bad teacher, but a friend of mine who lived in Torrance a few years ago had a hard time finding a Japanese kindergarten, so maybe it's an area thing. Another friend had no complaints with a Japanese-affiliated kindergarten or daycare. I guess it's just chemistry ?.

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#65
  • 母親のエゴ?
  • 2021/08/03 (Tue) 10:36
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Why choose Japanese-American ? after kindergarten, it's a regular English-majority school ? I think a few years of adaptation to American society would be wasted
Simple question.

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