Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

Waste of time

I guess different people think different things are a waste of time.

For me,
I think it's a waste of time for someone who wants to get married to spend time in an uncertain relationship with a married man.
（ But some people learn after these relationships. ）
If you want to get married, keep in mind that it gets harder and harder as you get older.
"Today, now" is the youngest time.
There are many single people in the world, but I think it is a waste of time to spend time with married people.

Next up,
a combination of those who definitely want children and those who definitely do not want children may also be a waste of time unless one of them breaks down.
（ But I have had many cases where men who said they did not want children have met wonderful women I introduced to them and had children.
And vice versa. On the other hand, there are women who said they never want children, but now they have two or three children. ） After all, compatibility and timing play a big part in this as well.

Next,
the combination of a person who is devoted to his/her religion and another person who is not religious or not religious can also be a tough one.
I think these people would prefer couples who are members of the same faith, but this also does not seem to be easy.
There are people who came to me after divorcing their ex-partners who were of the same religion but it didn't work out.
If both parties can maintain the stance that they are their own person without imposing their own ideas on each other, there will be no problem.
I have happy couples who are from different religions but respect each other.

In this way,
you will learn and improve yourself through various encounters, and （ for better or worse, ） you will discover a lot of things about yourself that you did not know.
You can also learn about etiquette, conversation choices, how to interact with different people, how you react, and what kind of people you can be yourself with.

If you judge someone （ because they are not your type, especially based on their looks ） or if you waste your time meeting them, you may think that you know yourself very well and have a good sense of humanity, but this is not the case in many cases.

I wonder if there is such a thing as a waste of time in life these days.

I think that events and encounters that happen to you have meaning.
The encounter may be a message from somewhere, a learning, or a mirror of the current situation.

Love, Miwako