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Thanking a man for a long phone call

I recently posted about a long phone call with a man. I received many comments and advice, but was unable to respond individually, so I would like to thank you again here. Thank you very much.

I knew there was a romance scam. I wonder if everyone is unaware of it ？ or if somewhere along the line they understand but are lonely and fall for it ？
It's really unforgivable to duck single women and profit from it ！

As for the progress since then, the trigger was We are still on the matching app and still call each other at least an hour every day and 4 ～ 5 hours before the holidays. He contacts me. It's been almost a month.

In conclusion, he and I recently met in person and had a great time as well as on the phone. There was no discussion about money or financial demands, he talked to me about his personal life, and he is doing a good job. When we met him, my impression was that he was a unique man.

As for why he is over 50 and unmarried, he told me that he thought he was not cut out for marriage, but now he wants to get married. However, from what he told me, he seems to have a little problem with his status and does not have a green card （ GC ）, although it does not prevent him from living and working legally. So, to be honest, I am beginning to think that they are after the GC ？. （ lol ）

I also feel that he may be communicating with other women in parallel through matching apps. I will be watching carefully in the future, but if GC is his goal, he may be targeting lonely women of his generation. Please be careful if you have similar experiences.

Since this is a small Japanese community, I will refrain from going into further details, but I do believe that you should keep in mind that there may be scams that are aimed at purposes other than money.
I have been in the same situation for a long time. It's not easy to meet people, and I guess the only chance is matching, etc. ？ I'm not sure.