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No matter how long it takes...

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#1
  • みさき
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  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#3
  • うーん。
  • 2022/12/07 (Wed) 19:25
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I think there are a lot of people like Topy.
If you are too serious, you may not be able to accept many things, and America may be tough. People who are a little too serious may have a hard time in America, because they cannot accept many things.

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#4
  • あるある
  • 2022/12/07 (Wed) 19:48
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It is easy to live in Japan because we are proper people.
Japan is a society where relationships are tenacious and the nail that sticks out gets hammered down, so it is a very cramped society.

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#5
  • ピッコロ
  • 2022/12/07 (Wed) 19:58
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What kind of nerve to ask about age right off the top of your head.

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#6
  • は?
  • 2022/12/07 (Wed) 20:04
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5
Not really, is it?

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#8
  • みさき
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 00:06
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I am in my 40s and have decided that my retirement will definitely be in Japan.
I feel that it is easier to live here, where relationships are not as intense as in Japan, and people do not interfere with each other. However, even after weighing the good and bad aspects, I still think Japan when I consider the environmental stress.

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