Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

• 一人ぽっちの部屋
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:55
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When you "decide by likes and dislikes," you start connecting with people who share the same values as you.

• 引退
• 2024/01/14 (Sun) 14:53
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I don't have many friends, but I am happy separately. People seem noisy these days.

• MI
• 2024/01/16 (Tue) 14:06
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If you don't want it, you don't have to worry about what others think

However, people who avoid socializing tend to think and act selfishly

My mother is exactly the same type, and she is now old and lives alone.
If your children are close to you, they can talk to you in their own way, but
there is no guarantee that this will happen in the future, so it might be better to be prepared for that
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• アラフォー
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 18:39
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I don't know if I've ever had no friends at all, but I would probably be boring. Talking about stupid things is only possible if you don't like each other. I think it's enough to have about 5 people you can talk to who you can trust and who trust you, including your family.
Too many is tiring. Once you have children, you can't make time for them, so they become distant, but you will naturally get back in touch with those who are a good fit. As we get older, we don't make new friends, so we want to treasure our old friends, and above all, our children are our treasures.

• 人災
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 00:34
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How refreshing to be free from that annoying person.
He gave me advice and advice from above even though I didn't ask him, was extremely stingy, decided everything for himself, talked behind my back if I didn't follow his advice, trusted me and told me everything I told him, hit my car in a hurry because of his short temper, lied to me and brought me to personal injury and I couldn't even get insurance for my car. It was very expensive. I have a lot of bad luck when I deal with people. I lost a lot of money by trusting in stocks.
The more I associate with people, the more I feel bad, pushed around, hurt by their words and actions, and the lonelier I am when I'm alone, the fewer disasters I have.
It's good to have friends you can trust. 、、、、、

Besides, Japanese and people from Japan take advantage of this. They don't have a car and think they deserve a ride.